i want tostudy medicine for better future but my girlfriend wants me to share her apartment. i won't be able to afford the expences because i dont earn too much n i rely basically on my parents help. what should i do to please her.?
2006-07-29 08:18:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're going to be a doctor, you need to learn how to spell EXPENSES first.
Don't do it then. If she dumps you, then you'll have more time to devote to your education. If you become a doctor, you'll have lots of women wanting to be your girlfriend/wife. So take your time and don't get pushed into something you don't want to do.
2006-07-29 08:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by whatzerface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you can't move in with her straight out. You're going to get plenty of women if you make it through med school. If she doesn't understand and goes away, she's probably not the best person for you anyway. But chances are, she'll get over it and you can have a quiet place to study.
2006-07-29 08:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you want to fulfill your dream of becoming a physician, and that at this time in your life, your studies..must come first..(Most of the time)and even though you would love to move in with her..you are just not financially stable enough to do so...at this time.
If she truly cares and respects you..she will understand, and want only the best for you and your future.
Do not..give up your dream of being a physician...just because someone wants you to move in with her.(who knows..she maybe long gone this time next month.)
Good Luck..:)
2006-07-29 08:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by swampfox conservative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay focused on your future. Tell your gf that if she wants a future with you she needs to give you this time to build that future. If she doesn't see the long term benefits you should dump her. I know this is harsh, but you have to look out for yourself now. Later is ALWAYS too late. Good luck.
2006-07-29 08:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pumpkin Head 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her moving out and living with someone is not the best thing for you to do at this time. If she doesn't understand that and accepts it, then maybe you need to rethink about being in this relationship.
2006-07-29 08:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you can't afford it right now. If she's a good person she will understand. If she doesn't understand, then forget it and move on with your degree.
2006-07-29 08:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to live somewhere don't you??? Isn't it cheaper to live with someone than by yourself??? Its totally up to you though, do you enjoy being with her??? Or do you feel like there is nothing there for you and you are just wasting your time, or just putting in time??? Its up to you.
2006-07-29 08:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right. explain the same to her.
2006-07-29 08:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋