I am due to get married on 05-05-07 and was set to go until yesterday. See...a co-worker and I used to be involved and I had thought I had gotten over him until yesterday. We had not been involved in a while and before I had a chance to tell him any thing he started to "mess" with me while we were working on a project together. I later told him that I was getting married and he seemed happy and even met my fiance before I left work, but we kissed. I had to know if there was something there and...well...you know. It wasn't major, it was slight. And I know all the co-worker wants is the "good stuff", so help. PLEASE!!!!????
2006-07-29 08:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by vernise2679 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stick with the "real deal" --If you have a good man that works and is committed to you, then leave the other guy alone. If he wasn't willing to commit before, what makes you think he is willing to commit now?? Have you seen the movie Picture Perfect with Kevin Bacon and Jennifer Anniston?? Same situation --- he wanted her when she was unavailable and dropped her like a hot rock when she was available! Don't lose a good thing over what might have been thinking. Chances are you left him alone for a good reason the first time and things will not be different the second time around. Hope this helps!
2006-07-29 08:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. You will be marrying a guy who wants all of you...not just the good stuff. Why would you want to be with a guy who only wants one thing? Don't let the thing with the co-worker go any further.
2006-07-29 15:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lab Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get over the co-worker, and go with the one thats going to be there in a longer life
2006-07-29 15:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it professional girlfriend. You already have warning signs blinking. your getting married and the guy at the office will be just the guy in the office again when the flame wheres down. Better chance of getting caught if they already met and you have to ask yourself if its worth it. Cause if it is, you shouldn't be getting married.
2006-07-29 15:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u like the co worker cause of the sex..the one u r marrying is the one u love or u would not have said yes..u know that once u break it off and/or cheat with they other guy the lust will fade away...so stick with what u know...it's just cold feet
2006-07-29 15:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by His 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it...my advice is to break off with your fiance he deserves to find someone who will be loyal to him and won't "have to find out" about someone else she used to date. You are not ready to get married to anyone, you don't have the maturity.
2006-07-29 15:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing major??? You are a cheater, and a slut All so you do not respect yourself and your to be husband
2006-07-29 15:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just wedding jitters get over it
2006-07-29 15:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋