What are the reasons behind men visiting saunas or prostitutes and not unpaid women.Is it more accepted in UK?

Question

I was told of someone who visited saunas in the past somewhat often.Is this due to a sexual addiction, easy access, rejection issues? the thrill of it,Or a habit? Can one have a relationship with this person,or will they most likely continue to visit saunas/ prostitutes, when he is bored, ect? I am asking men who visit these places or women with men who have, for their input. I noticed that there is not much information from mens view about this, and I am very curious about what is the thought process. I was naive about this until recently to be honest, because I was biased and believed it was only perverted people or sex addicts that did this, and I realize that this previous belief was ignorant. Also what do you think of the women? Really what I am asking is what is in your mind thought process, and how you feel after, and if you can sustain a serious relationship with someone that you care about and meet each others needs without visiting a sauna, prostitute?

Answer 1

all the above my mates a ex prostitute and some have family's but just need to talk to someone who listens then you get the men who have fantasies which there wife don't know about are a shammed of it .some of the Lady's do find love with the men but there is always a trust issue i only know all this because of a girlie night and you know what us girls are like??

Answer 2

People pay to sauna or prostitutes for a change or when they do not get adequate sexual pleasure from women.Some prefer to remain as bachelors and go after a number of women.People go for paid sex when they are unable to get free sex.It is an art to make a woman to share your bed for just sake of enjoyment.

Answer 3

First off, I have never paid for sex.

Having said that, in theory, there is something to be said for paying a woman to have sex with no emotional or relationship hang-ups later. No guilt about running out the door afterwards. No "call me" issues.

It has as much emotional meaning as tossing off in the shower. No actual feelings are expected or asked for.

As for the women, my guess is that most are doing it because their backs are to the wall financially, or they are doing it for drugs. I don't believe the women should be prosecuted. Only the pimps should be--because they are just stealing from the women.