Scared!?????

Question

Well I get scared right before I should start my period. I think that I am prego..This is because me and my boyfriend mess around..And I dont mean sex...We still havent had sex. He just fingers me and oral..So basicly what I am asking is..Can I get prego from that.? He said that there wasnt ne thing on his hands..plz dont be mean about it? its the last thing i need..:(

Answer 1

dont worry hun, you wont get pg from that, only if the sperm reaches your egg, so as long as he isn't cu***g inside you it ok. If you are gonna hav sex PLEASE use a condom to avoid any unwanted pg

Answer 2

The answer in the context that you ask is No. however, If your boyfriend and you are grinding with no clothes and he as previously ejaculated, it is possible to have a small amount of semen enter and result in prego. Best thing you could do is talk to your folks and explain that you feel that you want to go on birth control and would like to talk to the doctor about it with them.

Understand that your parents are not going to hate your guts or boot you out of the house. They are more than likely be scared as well, because they will be reminded that you are not a little girl anymore. That may result in some anger, but is more the scaredness that is showing. Explain, it and be honest, your parents had you and lets face it, it probably wasnt their first time when they got together.

hope that helps, no worries just be safe. also, no you can not get prego if he cums in your mouth, only vaginal contact with semen can result in prego.

Answer 3

Yes, you can get pregnant if any of his semen somehow gets into your vagina and comes in contact with an egg. Which means if you are mutually getting each other off, there are fluids involved and you should be careful, not only for pregnancy but also STDs.

All the people answering who say you couldn't get pregnant are stupid. You are right to worry, but the chances that you are actually pregnant are extremely slim. However, there IS a possibility that something could happen, so it's better to be careful and prevent the situation rather than worry and hope every month.

As soon as my ex-boyfriend and I started messing around (he was my first for everything, really), I went on birth control. I'd recommend you talk to your doctor about it. If it's a problem with parents, since I'm guessing you're rather young, your doctor should be able to help you figure out a way to get it without them knowing (it's called the HIPA laws - they protect your privacy). Also, call your local Planned Parenthood and they should be able to help you get affordable birth control. You will need a prescription from your doctor, though.

Another option might be for him to put spermicide on his fingers before he fingers you. Oral probably isn't too much of a problem, but don't kiss him after you've gone down on him if he's going to go down on you afterwards until after you've thoroughly brushed your teeth. Also, don't have him go down on you after he's fingered you with spermicide on his hands. Probably doesn't taste too good or is too healthy for him.

Good luck!

Answer 4

It sounds like you are not an adult from your question. You need to go talk to your parents so they can be the ones to educate you.

Also with you being not an adult, it is best for you and your boyfriend stop messing around all together because it seems that you have no idea what you are doing since you are coming to a public web site asking for information that ONLY your parents should educate you with.

If you always get scared before your period then you need to stop allowing your boyfriend to do whatever he does to you and then you won't be scared at all.

You kids/teens are such in a rush to be grown.

Answer 5

NO you shouldnt be prego... But seriously take a good look at yourself and ask yourself if not knowing the answer to this on your own if you are truely ready to be having sex. Maybe you should grow up a bit and get educated on sex before jumping into it. Not trying to be mean, just telling you the truth.

Answer 6

You can not get pregnant from having oral sex. Your boyfriend can not get you pregnant by fingering you. Don't stress...However, slow down...your obviously not old enough or educated about sex to be involved in sexual activity...Slow down...enjoy your youth before you become a mommy!

Answer 7

No, you can NOT get pregnant from anything that doesn't involve pre-ejaculatory fluids or semen, which BOTH come from the penis. Please, ask your parents or an adult you trust to give you the straight information that you NEED about sex, before you really DO end up pregnant.

Answer 8

Well when he fingers you, you could get some kids of desiese make sure he washes his hands and no you can not get pregent from oral sex

Answer 9

Doesn't sound likely that you're pregnant. But, honest, if you've taken your love this far... it's time to get on birth control. Do it for yourself and your boyfriend. It's truly better to be safe than sorry.

Answer 10

The chances of that happening are soo slim, maybe you should consider going on the pill to ease your nerves. It will also regulate your cycles, and give you less cramps

Answer 11

sex=pregnancy. don't have sex until you think being a parent for the REST OF YOUR LIFE is a good plan for you! birth control is not fool proof! when you play YOU PAY!

ANY TIME sperm is near the vagina you can get pregnant.