...and stop treating me like im dumb or a child? Please refer to my other question by clicking on my picture. Im so sad. Hes so sweet, but y is he messing this up? Y does this have to happen?? What can i say to him so he'll take me seriously? Im always telling him we need to talk (see yonother question) and i say it so much and try to find out y, he rolls his eyes. I refuse to train a man out of childhood and how to be a honest husband. Damn gamblers.
2006-07-29 07:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you've talked to him about how you feel and what you know is going on and he still isn't listening to you then you should probably consider leaving him. I'm not saying get a divorce or anything - but just leave him and go stay with your parents or friends for a little while. That will send a big, clear message to him that you mean business and that you aren't going to take him lying to you anymore.
He has an addiction problem and him treating you like a child and making you feel like you don't know what you are talking about is his way of avoiding the subject of whats going on with him.
2006-07-29 07:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ava, I have learned over the years for us to be taken seriously we have to stop repeating the same thing over to our husbands, children, ect. They do hear it the first time but a lot of times they choose to ignore it when it is said to them more than twice. If your husband has a gambling problem you can't solve it for him. He has to want to quit and get help. It takes sometimes hitting rock bottom before they realize they need to stop and in the case with him that just might have to happen. I did view some of your questions and money seems to be the object of some of the problems. You state you give him extra money, so it leads me to believe he works the extra hours to have money to gamble with, if indeed this is what is going on. You and he need to sit down when neither or stressed or tired and talk about what is going on with him. If he still chooses not to listen and roll his eyes you then have to make a decision based on what you want and need out of life and living like this isn't for you then I guess you would have to make a choice. Best Of Luck
2006-07-29 14:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get his attention is to deny him sex. Let him know that if you are too dumb to listen to You are too dumb to open your legs and service him. Making him do his own housework,laundry and cooking will also make an impression on his ego. Never let him forget You are really the master and He is at best a partner in your life.
2006-07-29 14:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the question
sorry im a husband
2006-07-29 15:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a dog they are more reliable.....touche Ava
2006-07-29 14:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no children...put him on a "get well" program now! If he fails that then dump him.
2006-07-29 14:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋