I have not had a menstrual cycle in over a year. However, when my boyfriend and I have sex, I bleed. Why?

Answer 1

Have you seen a doctor as to why you have not had s menstrual cycle for over a year? If you have not, GO and have it checked out. There may be other problems you are having, so do NOT put this off. I know it's easy to do, I have put something off myself but now I'm getting it checked. It's better to be safe then sorry, so go to the doctor now! And keep me updated, please? [e-mail]

Answer 2

Hmm, first of all - not having a menstrual cycle is not very healthy. This could be a sign of low hormones or other female issues. Plus, bleeding when you have sex. Is this during sex or after sex and is it more like spotting? These are definitely issues to be concerned about. You would be wise to see your gynecologist and have a discussion about what you can do concerning these two issues. Now if you are an older woman experiencing early menopause - not having a period for over a year is not unusual and perhaps there is some thining of the vaginal walls that could cause some bleeding during sex. Again, these are all things to talk to your doctor about and it is better to do it sooner than later.

Answer 3

First, march yourself to the nearest gynecologist's office and get this checked out! As with all bodily functions gone awry, with unusual bleeding or discharge your first line of defense is medical assessment and intervention. You may have a little lesion, cyst or sore that is reopening from the constant thrusting or rubbing inside; or you may have something else occurring that requires medication or surgery. Given the rampant incidence of such STDs as chlamydia, herpes and human papilloma virus (which, along with being the source of genital warts, is the cause of most cervical cancer), it's wise to be safe rather than sorry.

If everything checks out in the medical department, then you want to look at what's going on in bed. Perhaps you are too dry during penetrative sex. Be sure to use ample lubrication during sexual contact, especially if you are not sufficiently stimulated or find it hard to maintain arousal. It's only when a woman continues to stay turned on that she produces the natural lubricating fluids that keep things moving smoothly inside her vagina.

The aspect of pain also troubles me and makes me think that you may not be amply prepared before he enters you. Talk about what turns you on with your lover, and work with him to achieve the right level of arousal before penetration. And talk to him about what doesn't feel good. Sex is a pleasure-based experience. Unfortunately, when some women feel a painful sensation during sex, they then shut down to avoid feeling that same pain again. If you find that you are shutting down, like a breaker switch, to avert that sensation, then you may need more than just a little bottle of goop. Be sure to stop what you are doing as a couple and address these issues pronto, before you end up with much more complex challenges in bed.

Answer 4

The reason that you may be bleeding after sex could be due to vaginal lesions. You should have this checked out by your GYN

Answer 5

you may be having irregular or no menses, Post coital bleeding is always pathological. One must consult her Gynecologist.

Answer 6

Get thee to a gynecologist, pronto.

Answer 7

You need to go and see a womans specialty doctor. It seems like your boyfriend is puncturing something. Please go see a doctor. Be safe.

Answer 8

sounds like you need to see a gynecologist.

Answer 9

Are you anorexic? go to a doctor.

Answer 10

Not sure, but talk to your mom or OBGYN.