if a woman discovers that her husband likes to look a shemales on the internet does that mean that he is gay?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

To answer your specific question. No the fact that you discovered he like to look at shemales doesn't mean he is gay. Careless maybe, but not gay. Is the fact that he looks at shemales on the 'net mean he's gay. No. Does it mean there is a problem with him and the marriage? Don't know. You have to answer that question. Does he do all the things he needs to do to be IN the marriage? Do the images at which he looks bother you? If so, communication is in order. Now that I mention it, communication is ALWAYS in order.

Answer 3

Absolutely not. Everyone has their own interests and sexual fetishes. A man does not have to be gay to watch shemales, it just means that it turns him on for whatever reason.

In support of this, some of the lesbians I know prefer gay male pornography over any other kind. It is not because they like men, as they certainly do not, but for whatever reason, watching this stimulates the part of their brains that turns them on.

In short, ones preference in porn does not necessary relate to their sexual orientation. I wouldn't worry about it. If it bothers you, try having a talk with him about it. I'm sure he will be glad to know that you are open minded and feel comfortable discussing it without judging him. Who knows, perhaps this will open up a whole new frontier for you in your relationship.

Answer 4

No not at all. There pretty cute if you ask me. Anyway where about you. He may be bi curious, among other things. You really have to have an open mind about this when you speak with him. Maybe he enjoys wearing your clothing to when your not home, you never know. It might not be a bad thing if your able to talk about it. If this stuff is really gross to you, then you may be in for a bumpy ride. If you accept it you may have just gotten alot closer to your man and it won't kill him anymore by hiding. If not, you may have to deal with it becuase he's just going to hide it from you and you'll lose a part of him. Contact me for more one on one info if you like.

Answer 5

It's definately "not normal". If he's watching "Broke Back Mountain" then that's not normal either. How is your sex life? Is it okay or has he be distracted?

Your time to act is now before you have children. YOu have to protect your unborn children from a bad environment or a poor genetic parent.

If he's cheating on you then dump him! Watching porn is a form of cheating!! This is the best times for your relationship with him. It doesn't get any better than this...if he's cheating on you now then he will surely cheat on you when you're older, fatter and pregnant with his child. Dump him now!!

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Good luck

Answer 6

Well i don't think so,he might have come across the word and would want to know more about it.
To me he might not have married you if he was a gay.but if he does vist the constantly, then seat him down and talk to him about it and think about confronting him also.

Answer 7

Well, it certainly can't be all that healthy. He might have just stumbled upon the sites, but if it's a usual thing with him I would think about confronting him.

Answer 8

It means he is sick!! It also means he needs to learn to clear out his history.

Answer 9

Yeah I think think so. I mean if his excuse is that they are hot... does he look at hot chicks? I think he has a fetish.

Answer 10

gross, Is he gay? if not yet he maybe trying to go that way