We have been together for 9 months. I have grown to love her greatly. She has severe pms affects. When its pms time, she hates men, cuts them down, and whats worse she includes me. She will find anything to use against me. She ends our relationship. 9 times in 9 months. When the period is gone she loves me again. Se wants to marry me. Does she really mean the mean things she says to me. Cuts me down, big time. But then loves me again after the period.
2006-07-29 07:19:49 · 5 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Very serious problem. get her to see a doc.
2006-07-29 07:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't mean what she says, it's just her hormones going crazy. Some women are affected more by pms than others. You should gently bring up to her how she acts and the hurtful things she says to you while on her period. Tell her that she should consider seeing her gyn and talking about any type of treatment that might help in easing her hormones during her period. If she doesn't believe you, then set up a camera and tape her the next time she goes on her period.
2006-07-29 14:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I use to be kind of like that but not putting men down. Although I do wish they could alternate months with us. But when I was dating I would ask the guy to please leave me alone due to that and I would call him later. Now I am married and when I that time of the month arrives I tell my husband and he just lets me be. Plus he grew up with three sisters and knows how they get plus his mother. So he really understands.
2006-07-29 16:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds really bad. maybe she needs some kind of medication during that time of the month. for some women PMS is really for them. it seems like you love her so stand by her and help her get some medical help. Good luck..i hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-29 14:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, sounds like you both are still young. it is most likely her hormones, just don't take her personaly , it will pass soon. You may not realize this, But it is HELL to go threw PMS. love her threw it. I know you can. Sounds like you are doing it anyway. It sucks being a female. she will out grow it some day.
2006-07-29 14:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋