should i be concrened about my friend? i have a friend who is 14, and she goes camping at the same place and sees the same people every year. she just came back and she was telling me about this guy who is 19, and they have known each other forever practically. but she said that this year things got weird between them. they call each other "brother and sister" because they are so close. but this year my friend told me that he gave her a back massage and stuff and they were always hugging and holding hands. and then we were iming him online and he said some kinda weird things to her. then we looked at his myspace and everything on his myspace was about her. it was strange. i even read an email from him to her and it said -from the guy who is waiting for you to grow up..luv ya..blah blah blah..they always say they love each other. i asked my friend if she does and she says she soesnt know. it's really obvious he likes her. i have never met him though. my friend's mom seems concerned sho
2006-07-29 07:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, he' too old for her, and its illegal. Older guys like younger girls for one reason.
2006-07-29 07:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? If they act like brother and sister, then there is gonna be an incestual relationship soon. No 19 year old guy in the world is going to hang out with a 14 year old girl except for sex. If the parents are all right with this then what are ya gonna do. But somebody has to get this girl to understand that he is not looking for a friend.
2006-07-29 14:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost....she is too young for this or any other 19 yr old boy/man.( by law he is an adult and she is a minor...she is "jail bait." ( meaning he could go to jail for having a sexual relationship with a minor)
Having a crush on a boy/man older is not so uncommon for girls the age of your friend...but, it is more of a concern that a 19yr old boy/man, would encourage the crush..or even respond to her..in any type of romantic manner.
Now, in five years when she is 18yr old, and he is 24yr old, that will be a diff story.
I think your friend should be very cautions...and obviously any mother would have concerns, and should explain her concerns to her daughter and the boy/man.
2006-07-29 14:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by swampfox conservative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal brothers do not do their sisters. Once he gets to work her over the relationship will be gone because she will know what a butt head he is. Guys that age feed off young girls and only want to use them. PERIOD :>)
2006-07-29 14:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concerned because someone likes your friend??? are you sure your not jealous?
2006-07-29 14:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own buissness....just maybe you'll be a better friend
2006-07-29 14:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by jim h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋