I am 14, been pregnant and been raped, i do drugs and alcohol am i normal?

Question

I need advice!!!

Answer 1

If this is a serious question then I consider you a normal teenager who is going through a crisis and trying to wipe out everything with drugs and alcohol. Maybe you should go see someone. Take care of this before the problem itself escalates into something catastrophic.

Answer 2

Well if you want my advice stop having sex at such an early age. You really need to see a picture of an STD to scar the crap out of or something. Leave the drugs and alcohol because they kill your brain cells, eventually damage your liver and can promote an early death. If I wanted to lie I would say that I don't want to scare you, but I do! Just be good and stay in school. Don't ditch and always try hard to get good grades. If you still have your baby try to become a better mother for it and become the successful person you have the potential to be. I hope that you change for the better, good luck and be safe!

Answer 3

I cant tell if you are normal. It's like an onion and you have issues. You have to start going to see a therepist and you deal and peel one layer off the onion at a time to find out what is causing all of your problems. Like, was your mom and dad always there for you? Once you get tothe center of the onion, then you can tell if you are normal or not. Your school counselor can lead you in the right direction. You really do need advice so you can deal with things positive instead of negative. Good Luck, Please talk to your school counselor, she will not tell anyone. Good Luck Sweetie

Answer 4

No, this is not a healthy way to live. I'm so sorry you have been raped--that is a horrible experience for someone at any age. Stop with the drugs and alcohol. Please get help from a doctor or counselor or both as soon as possible.

Answer 5

Some kids at around your age, which is called adolescence, likes to try new things out such as drugs and alcohol. It is absolutely wrong to do! But some kids feel like they want to experiment new things. You NEED to STOP doing drugs and drinking alcohol and concentrate on your education and future goals. Please, try talking to a counselor about this.
Also, practice safe sex. Sex is also another thing that kids your age want to experiment with. You should NOT be having sex at such a young age.

Answer 6

Your normal under the circumstances. Sweetie you really need to give this hurt to God. Let him take your burden so you can become a productive young lady. Your too young to give up on your life now. I've been where you are, talking to God, and crying really will cleans your spirit.Please stop the drugs and drinking God Bless. I'll keep you in prayer.

Answer 7

I am now 16, i have done the whole drug scene, did the whole drinking smoking lying, cheating stealing stage i went as far as doing the suicidal, re-hab tit bit. It is all a part of growing up and as long as you can realise when it gets outta control then i think you are o.k. As for the whole rape thing, honey it is not your fault and you should consider seeing a therapist

Answer 8

Honey that is as far from normal as it can be. At your age you should be worried about pimples and your grades. At you school there must be someone that you can talk to. Like a guidance counselor or you preacher at church. Just remember in order to be treated like you are somebody you need to believe that you are somebody. After all God don't make no junk. Seek help and advice and pray. God can heal all wounds all you need to do is ask for his help.

Answer 9

WOW! no not normal. Put that in the past maybe. Stop drugs and alcohol. Get counciling!

Answer 10

I work in the social services arena, and more and more we are seeing kids with these situations.No child your age should have to go through so much. Talk to your school counselor or nurse about getting therapy and counseling. They know the resources available to you. With support, you can certainly get over all of this so you can enjoy your teenage years in good health.