well i don't have a boyfriend but other than that .........!!!!!!!!1
2006-07-29 06:51:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I think I have the same problem. People have told me that they are envious of my life - my "perfect" grades, my "perfect" friends, my "perfect" body. When I look at myself, I see grades that are A's instead of A+'s, friends that are immature and materialistic instead of understanding, and a too-big butt and too-short body instead of a lithe, tall body. When my life really gets me down, then all I do is try my hardest to stop thinking about why I am sad. I try to think more about why I should be happy. I think that is the only way to approach life.
2006-07-29 07:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by smartcheese32 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Most people are sad because they are out of place or unappreciated. If everything seems good in your life, then you are missing something vital or you are deceiving yourself in some way. Find out which, with urgency. I suggest you read God's Word, the bible: parts of it are directed to exactly the sort of empty feeling you seem to be experiencing. Reead the book of JOB (near the middle of the whole bible) about a good man who undergoes real tragedy for no good reason. Another good reading is Lamentations, written by the prophet Jeremiah when his city was under seige by the enemy. Both those books show how to see beyond what is around you and help you realise what is important in the long run.
2006-07-29 07:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if everything is going good in your life you should not worry about the pain that you are feeling. I have felt the same way before and it did not go good for me at all. everything was going good but i felt really sad and alone and i had no idea why i felt that way. I believe you are starting to get signs of depression. Well the relaitonship depression, go out with a few of your friends and go to clubs or bars and meet people who you believe would be right for you. Don't sit around and do nothing while other girls are meeting the people that you want to be with.
2006-07-29 07:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go looking for things that will make you even more miserable.
look inside yourself.
find a hobby something creative, go outside! ride a bike... buy some ice cream! go to the movies and chow down popcorn!
look at the clouds! go shopping!
learn to paint (if ya already don't) do some community effort to help others who could stand some assistance...
become an intern for some company or organization..
give gifts!
buy poppy seeds and plant them all over the neighborhood.
fly a kite...
buy a big box of confetti blasters and cut loose...
invite a few best friends over for some quiet time and fun activities...
boyfriends will come, just don't force it.
(for many reasons)
2006-07-29 07:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by t10t200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like part of you're identity may be wrapped up in having a significant other. That's pretty common. At the same time, being single is an ideal time to explore yourself. If it leads to more sadness or the sadness persists, talk it thru with a licensed therapist -- someone who is skilled at helping you grow towards your full potential.
2006-07-29 07:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be clinically depressed and might need a little pick me up from the doctor. Anti-depressants are used very commonly now and you should not be afraid to use them as long as you have them prescribed if the MD sees fit. Also , get a boyfriend and have fun. Like you said your life is awesome! Enjoy it!
2006-07-29 07:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by michael g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps the statement "everything is awesome in my life" needs to be examined a little closer. is "everything" truly awesome, or has someone other than you defined what an awesome life is supposed to be? if you list everything that you want your life to represent, and indeed you have it all, i would recommend one of two things: set some new goals and go achieve them, or perhaps have a routine physical examination to be sure you're not clinically depressed.
2006-07-29 06:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a dose of endorphins. Go skydiving, take a high speed motorcycle ride, go to a concert, have some good sex, eat some comfort food, read a happy book, do something charitable, you are responsible for your own happiness.
2006-07-29 06:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is a boyfriend is the only thing that u dont have? is it why you felt empty? ....i think you should be thankful for everything you had, think how lucky you are, have a more positive attitude, smile and laugh a lot, enjoy life, if you still feel sad THEN...try to get closer to god.
2006-07-29 07:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by may_honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take some St. John's Wart and eat right.
2006-07-29 07:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋