My husband came home yesterday, and was nice for about 5 minutes.; And then he starts an argument out of no where. And most of the things he says are not true. He's very erritable. What do you think is going on?
2006-07-29 06:48:01 · 15 answers · asked by maryhartmaryhart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hes depressed, get him to a Dr.
Not a counsler a medical Dr
2006-07-29 06:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when I have a bad day at work, I'll come home and try to act like nothing is wrong but eventually I'll get irritated and somehow take it out on my husband. He may have had something like that happen. You're not supposed to take your work frustrations home with you, but sometimes that's easier said than done.
2006-07-29 14:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that your husband is unhappy and is probably fooling around. therefore he comes home and plays happy for a few mins. because he feels guilty and then he starts an argument and says thing ugly to make you feel bad and make himself feel better about what he is doing. this way if you argue back this gives him a reason for leaving the house again without you.
2006-07-29 13:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by deborah r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several possibilities.
1. Stress at work that he is taking out on you.
2. Physical problems such as depression.
3. He could be cheating. Husbands often pick fights with their spouse when they are cheating. It makes them feel justified if they can tell themselves their wife is a *****. This usually occurs when you are being your nicest and they feel guilty.
2006-07-29 13:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like he's trying to make things work with you but can only keep the act up for a short amount of time before it shows through how unhappy he is.
I'm sorry. I hope for your sake I'm not right, but to me that's what it seems like.
2006-07-29 14:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know what is going on, but I can understand why you are concerned. Can you take a walk and talk? Try to get to the real issue- what is making him irritable. It might not be related to your marriage at all.
Best wishes to you!
2006-07-29 13:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is Hot and men are very moody when they get hot. Men go via their little times of the month too, they just don't wear a pad to prove it. Talk to him about it if you are concerned, but more than likely it is just his time of the month.
2006-07-29 13:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a long day at work and just needed to be alone for a little while.
2006-07-29 13:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he drinking? Men who drink often tend to be edgy out of no where. My dad was like that.
2006-07-29 13:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be at peace,then talk wit him and sort out the prob.don't worry everthing wud be ok.it's life it happens.don't get depressed and don't over react.
bye and take care
2006-07-29 13:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Khyati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋