Be honest....
2006-07-29 06:45:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Personality and intelligence because as Ron White says, "You can't fix stupid."
2006-07-29 06:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Personality
2006-07-29 06:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by utlcutl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2006-07-29 06:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely personality!!
I'm drawn to people with a clever, intelligent wit and a heart that is open to people all of the time.
I've never been drawn to good looking men, unless of course they have the above. That is what is so cool about this venue to be honest. You see everyone's personality emerging in their questions and answers. You start to know them from "the inside out." You can be so very familiar with the type of personality they have without having a clue what they look like.
People will say that looks don't matter. But one way or another they get in the way. People are judged if they are too beautiful or they are judged if they are lacking lovely traits that others might possess. But closing your eyes or talking to someone blindfolded doesn't always seem to present itself in our society. So we are faced with "looks."
Once you know what is important to you, then you can meet and greet and talk and converse and look for that personality without even having to close your eyes.
But for honesty's sake..... in a venue such as this, personality is a must! Heck you could be as ugly as a monkey and still have a great personality and the world would love you. :)
2006-07-29 23:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more specific. It's different with a friend, where looks matters much less than in the romantic relationship.
I have many friends, most of them have terrific personality, but I am also very sensitive for beauty and I have some friends incredibly beautiful, because it's such a pleasure to look at them. I am not saying that they have no personality.
From loved one I expect more than from a friend, I spend more time with him and I can't base on looks. I had a long relationship with someone not physically attractive at all and I he still turned me on. I also had a short romance with somebody incredibly handsome. In this case I didn't have much time to get acquainted with his personality, but I was blinded by his beauty and for a few days this made me happy.
"Personality" is a word describing a combination of traits I admire at people. Looks is a single characteristic- I can only take pleasure from admiring the perfection of nature, not even necessary for sexual attraction, so for me it can't be compared.
But I would be the happiest, if I don't have to chose;)
2006-07-30 07:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Feniks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is much more important. I find that a "less attractive" person with a great personality becomes more attractive with each passing day, their inner self shines through. On the other hand, I'm sure we have all met that extremely attractive person who is so spoiled and attracted to themselves that their facial expressions and attitude in general gets to be like fingernails on a chalkboard: nerve-racking and tiresome. I think a good criteria here is to imagine having to spend time alone with one person: Would rather be LOOKING at a beautiful person? or communicating with someone very personable?
2006-07-30 02:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. I say this because that's how you get to know someone. You can't get to learn and know someone by their looks.
And if looks where the most important thing to someone, then that person would just be judging the person before they even go to know them or their personality.
2006-07-29 06:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by snappypappy797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest, I think you need both. Nobody needs to be drop-dead gorgeous or anything, but humans are visual creatures, and that's what they see first, not your personality. After that, they get to know your personality and decide if it's pleasant or not, and go from there. Looks and personality are about even.It kind of sucks, but it's the truth.
2006-07-29 06:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. I mean looks does allow for the initial attraction but if you have no personality to back up the good looks than you have nothing. I couldn't see myself with someone who was fine/sexy..etc..but that was boring, dumb and or just a plain ole' jerk. So hands down Personality outweighs looks any day.
2006-07-29 06:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by smartchik33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be an attraction but that for me is not based on looks - it may have something to do with the way a man or a woman looks around at this - the way I see them take the world in, the way they express themselves, the way they look when they laugh or talk - or are interested and care about what they are saying... personality is key of course and a sense of humor but that deep attraction has to be there - but for me, it's not looks - it is a lot deeper than looks, on the surface...
2006-07-29 06:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality because:
An individual is able to:
Identify their own strengths and sources of satisfaction
Better understand themselves and those they relate to in daily life
Appreciate the fundamentally different ways others view the world, and live in harmony and peace in the midst of great diversity
2006-07-29 06:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋