I have been together with my fiance for 10 months and broke up with her. She does not want to end the relationship, and to be honest I don't really either. I just cant see a future with the two of us though. I was pretty wild when I was younger and I think the wild side is trying come back out again. I don't want to hear any maybe you were not really in love and this and that. I really do still love her. It took 4 days after the break up for her to realize that it really happened. We still live in the same house together which is getting weird. Even if we get back together I don't think it will be the same as it was. I'm pretty much at a loss for what to do...
2006-07-29 06:29:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd encourage you to get a professional third party opinion. Go to a couples counselor because you have stated your concern fairly clearly: You love her, but you can't see the future you want with her. A counselor can help you make sure whether or not you work to find ways to have the future you want with her.
This will help you get another perspective and get out of the finite routine of your social/living environment.
Also, at the least, go to the local bookstore and browse the relationship book aisle. Scan the books for new ideas and new perspectives beyond what both of you already know. There are probably solutions for the answers you seek. I hope you find them.
2006-08-01 16:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have some issues within yourself that need to be dealt with before having a relationship. If you are honest and lay your cards out on the table, she will respect that and maybe help you with it. Everyone brings baggage into a relationship, you just have to be honest and deal with it the best way you can so that you can do the next best right thing.
2006-07-29 06:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like it is merely artwork issues and also you 2 look pleased with 1 yet another... it will exercising recurring i think, I recommend if her artwork is the merely situation, it skill you're nonetheless the guy she loves and she isn't searching everyone else. merely act regular and do not pressure this on her, she'll come lower back if she loves you and ought to be with you too. artwork can't change love.
2016-11-26 22:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋