am a very secretive person yet still i tell my girl friends about my love life but they never tell none not even each other..why is that?? u would think that because am secretive the i would keep my business to my self but i choose to tell my friends but they don't do the same..i don't understand??
Ps.. our friendship is 100% great no talkin behind each other bac or nothing??
So why don't they tell me
2006-07-29 06:18:03 · 13 answers · asked by Am so Curious 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
its deepens on the person if they want to say then they will say, your girl friends may be hiding something or to shy to say it.
if you are in a public play may be they are scared or shy that someone will hear them
i think your friendship is at 95 % or less because you are open in something and they are... i don't know them so i cant say if they are open or close minded =|
try to ask them in privet don't rush good luck
2006-07-29 07:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was the same in my little friendship circle. We've always all been a very quiet group of friends with me being one of the quietest yet I used to share quite a lot of my life with them - my secrets - gossip - chatting about anything and everything. Yet they didn't tell me anything in return. In the end, the people who I thought were my friends stopped bothering with me at all - because they all began relationships with guys and didn't seem to care for me at all. Even when my great nanna died - I had no support from them whatsoever even though I had dedicated a great deal of my time to helping them. In the end I conclude that If you have a problem with them - why they aren't talking to you as much - then you are better off asking them straight out - other wise it'll be the end of your friendship for good.
2006-07-29 14:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are secretive and then in the next sentence give reasons why you are not. Telling people about your sexual exploits means you are not secretive at all, either that or you just like to brag. Some people just aren't like that, they don't consider their sex life anybodys business but theirs.
2006-07-29 16:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a Scorpio from your last quetion that u said for all scorpios to anwser. well i think your friends dont want to put there business out like u do. i mean dont trust nobody but yourself thats y wen i need to say something i write in my diary. cuz your not going to stay wit that friend forever. they dont have to shre what they have to say wit u. and they might just no not to trust nobody cuz the secret might b big. Mayb
2006-07-29 14:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to accept the fact that people are different. Not everyone is comfortable talking about their personal lives, even with their friends.
2006-07-29 16:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wayne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is so open with their secrets... take what you can get and be appreciative of the friendships you have and what they share with you.
2006-07-29 13:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they feel that if you are so open in telling them about your personal life, that you might do the same with theirs...hope this helps...
2006-07-29 16:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe you are trying to brag about your experiences! try growing up and realizing that you love life is really not interesting to others... And, why do you want to know about the love lives of others? sounds creepy and voyeur to me. most people just aren't into that. ick!
2006-07-29 16:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by canary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that not everybody feels good about sharing there personal life. having friends is good but to share everything with them may not be a good idea.
don't feel bad if they don't share everything with you.
2006-07-29 14:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever think is because if not of your business to know their love life? EFIL
2006-07-29 16:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋