This are my symptoms:
1. I think of him about 4 hours a day
2. Before I met him I liked blond guys(he has dark her); now I cant stand them.
3. If i date anyone else I always think that the guy i like is smarter, better good looking, etc, and I don't want to date anyone else anymore.
4. One time I had this felling when i so him:butterflies in my stomach. But just one time.
If I am, then how do I get rid of this emotions? I don't want to be in love before 30. It would ruin my plans. I want to move to another country, a PhD, a career, and all that. I have other priorities.
P.S.: He already told me he likes me, and that he wants to go out with me.
2006-07-29 03:40:07 · 15 answers · asked by Luna 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Imagine being married with him and have 5 kids that take up all your time, being home cleaning and washing while he is working with nice smart young woman that did got their PhD.
If that don't cure you, then you really are in love.
2006-07-29 03:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Chri R 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
If you truly want to get rid of these emotions.....and you seriously want to forget about him, then I suggest not seeing him anymore. Don't contact him.....don't talk to him.....don't correspond with him. For awhile, you may feel sad...thinking about him more than before. Maybe wondering what he's doing....thinking about what could have been if you decided to stay with him. But... after some time, things will get much better. You will start to focus more on your personal goals (never lose touch with your own dreams...your own plans...) and your thoughts of him will start fading....and new thoughts will replace them. This could take awhile if you truly like him as much as it seems.
Remember this saying: "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it never was yours."
2006-07-29 04:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Sky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you might be falling in love, anyway...and don't take it lightly because careers etc can always be pursued but a good relationship and mutual love are hard to find. Give it a chance!!!
2006-07-29 03:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and i don't think it's a good idea to wait until 30. which will be too late any way.. it's better to have some1 to share with ur times so tat one day when u r in trouble, u guys could understand each other better...
2006-07-29 03:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are infatuated with him, and he is the same with you. Please dont give him up because you dont want to be in love before 30, by then he may be gone, and you may not be able to find another guy. He told you he likes you, and you like him, it seems like everything is falling perfectly into place for you.
Good luck!
2006-07-29 06:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just like him. You're not actually in love unless you go out with the guy and get to really know him
2006-07-29 04:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~Princess~From~Hell~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what you feel should trump what you think, there is nothing wrong with changing your plans for something you feel in your heart to be true.
2006-07-29 03:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Crockett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time you are thirty, he will have married and had four children. If a career is what you want, say goodbye to his love for he will not wait................
2006-07-29 03:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you arent in love...your reasons are pretty primitive at this point.. especially since you havent gone out withim..just become a phd
2006-07-29 03:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bay Area Real Estate Realtors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a maybe thing! You know when you are in love! But that doesn't mean that you will never love him!
2006-07-29 03:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ri Ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋