2006-07-29 03:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by rajesh c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just pray and god will help you get through this..........
2006-07-29 03:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry to say, but I don't think you ever do get completely over it. Time does lessen the pain though. If you are a religious person, then I think your beliefs could help you through the stages of grief. All I can tell you is to hang in there, and even though you may not notice it, every day will be just a tiny bit better. It's not about forgetting the person, it's about understanding that life does go on. Your friend would have wanted you to go on to live a long and happy life.
2006-07-29 10:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by sherrie_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately continue in your period of morning for a time, don't decide to get over it and let the tears build up for a long time. have a time every day, 5 minutes at the most, when you cry and think about your friend. when five minutes is done, you stop crying. you have to. after a month and a half, the tears will come less, only thoughts. eventually you will only think on the good times and not the pain of loss.
2006-07-29 10:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss :( You can't get over the death of someone close to you quickely, it takes time. I knwo that the last thing you want to hear. Try speaking to a religious leader you know (like a priest). Also, just being busy could help. Hang out with other friends. Who ever your friend is wouldn't want you to be sad, so go out and have fun!
2006-07-29 10:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry! There is no way to "get over" grief, but, the intensity of your feelings will change over time. For now, though, it's fine to feel however you feel! Talk to other friends about your friend, write down special memories you have of him/her, know that you can still talk to the person just as if he or she were still here.
It's really awful to lose a friend so suddenly.
I care!
from a grandma-aged person
2006-07-29 11:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my best freind too i was in 5th grade though so it took a little more time, why did he, what happened u know! Im still not over it fully but i know hes watching over me, i still cy about it every time i almost hear his name because we were best friends! So it just takes time, and to tell you teh truth im in 9th now and well you might get better but you may never get over it, if it was a really close friend than no probably not, but if not very close than you'll get over fast!I Hope this helps be happy, thier still with you!
2006-07-29 10:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Booboo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up.you loved the friend.you had fun with the friend.and now is to just forget about it.just keep all good memoried in your heart(:think about the person.know that the person is looking at the from Heaven and that your friend is in peace.mayeb you can try to do things to keep you occupied.like sports(:
2006-07-29 10:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep busy an pray to god to help you,but don't forget about your friend , just keep it off your mind,You will never really get over it but you can ezz the pain alot,don't think about your friend being gone,just think they are away,because they are still with you.
2006-07-29 10:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Gary F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS a tuff one.FIRST of all i am so sorry.MY heart goes out to you.BUT you take your time + heal.BUT as soon as you feel stronger help others.OK? Help children.SET up a scholarship fund in their honor and memory. THIS will help others.This will keep their memory a live too. Best wishes huggs+ kisses star 0x xo
2006-07-29 10:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard i know but there in and better place now some plp get it out there mind and forget other like me i maded and srap book of my dad and ween i get to thinking about him i pull it out and look at it pic of him and stuff i go to his grave at least few times an month and sit and talk to him for a bit my hubby cant deal with going to see his grandma so he stay away try to forget it all up to u how u deal with it i take flowers to my dads grave
2006-07-29 10:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieving is as unique to an individual as an individual is in the world.
Get counseling if you need it, but know this your grief is your own. Know it for what it is.
No one has the right to tell you how long or how hard to grieve.
2006-07-29 10:24:31 · answer #11 · answered by The Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋