I'm a married woman, but I seem to think about having relations with women. I have experienced it maybe 1 or 2 times and enjoyed it. Am I wrong for thinking a woman can satisfy me.
2006-07-29 03:09:00 · 25 answers · asked by Honei H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You are wrong if you think having sex with a woman wouldn't make you an adulteress, because it will. You will still be cheating on your husband, and that is WRONG.
2006-07-29 03:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may be right, a woman may be what fulfills your needs. Sexually and in life. And if that's the conclusion you come to then it's OK to live your life how YOU want to. However you are currently married, and cheating is cheating. Whether it's with a man or another woman.
2006-07-29 10:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Simone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You're fighting a million years of evolution.
The human animal was never meant to be monogamous. Survival of the species often relied on the male spreading his seed as widely as possible. Monogamy is an unnatural restriction, and the primordial male human brain rebels against it subconsciously, creating thoughts that turn into wandering eyes.
That said, it's disrespectful to the person you entered into a contract with. If you respect your wife, you will supress the natural urge.
2006-07-29 10:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by ratboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since marriage is a contract between a man a woman and God, in a true marriage it is wrong. However, your marriage is obviously not sanctified by God so there is no right or wrong for you. Right and wrong is defined by you and your "husband" not God in this case.
So, without God, you have no right or wrong only feelings. He is the judge of right and wrong, not us.
Since you don't live by His laws, then do what you want but suffer the consequences of living a sinful lifestyle in outer darkness.
2006-07-29 10:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by IL Padrino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong that you should want to, but doing it is wrong.
Tell your husband about this, I'm sure he'd be quite content with the idea of another woman joining you two for a bedroom expedition. Haha.
2006-07-29 10:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by mcljuggalette108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can want all you like. But just know it is cheating. Unless you have an open relationship with your husband.
Maybe he'd like to be involved too?
Would you think it was wrong if he wanted to have relations with a man? I think that would be something to think about before you inflict your sexual desires onto him. He could loose respect for you.
2006-07-29 10:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Honei
fancy THAT > . I have experienced that
first hand . (I am da male-species).
You have BI tendencies . NOTHING WRONG
WITH THAT !!
I F Y O U W A N T T O K E E P
Y O U R P A R T N E R ;
BE HONEST , TALK , EXPLAIN
COMPROMISE .
Good Luck !
Orion Man
2006-07-29 10:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Moonlite gambler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with that. Just talk to you husband and see what he thinks about the idea of you being with a women. He might really be into that.
2006-07-29 10:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Episco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Dead wrong! It's not worth it unless you want to be rejected by God. Read Romans chapter 1 in The Holy Bible and you will find out why. There such people are called reprobate-rejected by God.
2006-07-29 10:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by LARRY S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not ok to give yourself to anyone outside of your marriage. If you are genuinely considering a sexual relationship with another, you need to consider that your marriage may be over or should be. Yes, talk to your husband, he may want a divorce so you can be free to play around. Cheating is cheating!
2006-07-29 10:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋