me and my bf broke up a about a week ago, but now were back together do you think this is a really smart choice for me to make????
2006-07-29 02:34:41 · 9 answers · asked by ~BANG I'm Dead~ <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you love him? Is he abusive? What is your gut instinct? Trust your gut.
2006-07-29 02:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd personally have to know more about the two of you and your history together. I think also, this is a question that only you can answer. Do you really love him? Why exactly are you dating him? Sometimes doing things like making a list of the reasons you like him and things you like about him helps you figure out what made you like him in the first place....but then also making a list of reasons why being around is difficult or there's things he does that don't make you feel right or bug you can help you figure out why maybe getting back together wasn't such a good thing. It's kind of a strange thing to do, but it really can help you figure out exactly what to do if you're having trouble just figuring it out yourself mentally. But as long as both of you are happy with each other and are willing to work through things like that in the future then yeah, I'd say it was a pretty smart choice.
2006-07-29 09:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if primary issue for the breakup has been resolved or not.
People sometimes get back together since they are needy and lonely and not feeling able to be responsible for having their own fun--not actually a very good reason for getting back together with them.
A breakup usually isn't based on one thing--everything leads up to it.
If you don't understand what happened, your next b/f will have the same bad qualities since you're be trying to solve unresolved issues.
You need to look at what you want for your future and what 10 Must Have's are important to you. If he doesn't meet them, it's goodbye.
2006-07-29 09:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its a smart choice u made, but i belive u love him and i know the feeling of wanting someone even after breaking up.
2006-07-29 09:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by lonelyfinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why u broke up in first place....perhaps u both needed a break to see if it is each other u really want
2006-07-29 09:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by lippylisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, u r the only one who can answer this question.
2006-07-29 09:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a man or a woman?
2006-07-29 09:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing...........
do you really think you deserve him
(if he started it..) (continuation) .deserve him after what he did to you....??!!!
2006-07-29 10:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by gal pal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. what is yr problem? all do someimes. try to keep it.
2006-07-29 09:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋