My husband use me always and never did any thing good for me , My friends always used me when they are upset with their partners and when they find them happy with each other and my presence is not fruitful in their life or they got more interesting person in their life they simply throw me out of their life, instead of telling me clearly they made plans and behave very smart and trying their best not to be blamed. I am simple loving but little demanding for sincerety . Even my relationship with my brother and my husband brother sisters are all finished because I don't like double face behaviour and ditching otherwise I liked by everyone and they always try friendly with me but I couldn't go along as I am financially not well. My husband have business problem. I am happy with my two kids they are lovery but not coping good with studies I am in fix and frustrated . How to copeup. As I am financially not well everybody try to count me as granted and giving respect. Pl serious advi
2006-07-29 02:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U dont have a high self esteem and self confidence. neva always try 2 pls ppl 2 ur own detriment. hav a mind of ur own and make decisions with ur head and nt ur heart.
2006-07-29 02:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by funmzire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve happiness. If you are not happy you have the power to change. It seems like there is a lot of negativity where you are and you need to try to find some time to get away to a quiet and peaceful place where you can be alone to recharge your batteries.
It seems that these individuals can't seem to handle reality. Learn to say no, and not feel guiltly. Take care of your home and don't worry about your in laws, hang in there things will work out.
It's not fair, but your husband needs to talk to his family and let them know that they need to be part of the solution, not part of the problem. Now I understand he has issues at work, but I feel he needs to find a way to get more involved as a father and as a husband. Have you sat him down and let him know how you feel? If that do not work, maybe you need to seek counselling, after all you deserve to be happy.
Hope this helps, and best of luck to you all ways. God bless
Ian
2006-07-29 03:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ian R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly what you are going thru. I can't do anything either as the finances I have with my Husband make me dependent on them. I would never survive without them on my own. I know it is hard but for the friends or so called friends tell them you can't help them as you have enough of your own troubles to contend with. Also because of your situation you will have to try to ignore the treatment form your Husband as best as possible. As I said it is very Hard, but that is what I am doing at this present time. Maybe the stress of his work is taking its toll and he is taking it out on you. Not fair I know. But try to hang in and Have Faith that eventually you will be better off. GBU and Good Luck!!!
2006-07-29 02:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mrsdonmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it true sometimes that even you love and how much you love the person they can't love you back.Please not try to expect what is in return,Just do what is good,risk what is best.Best for yourself and best for the family.Don't blame yourself,just be cool.Do the things that is what you think that makes you happy.Be happy for what you are and not what others think of you.Have a peace of mind,have a second or a minute to pray! Peace and Happiness
2006-07-29 02:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by carmela24ph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-29 03:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy is your best answer. There's just way too many people who seem to discard you so it's time to look at yourself.....not harshly but truthfully.
2006-07-29 02:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that u r used to be used. try to have selfconfidence and do not sell yrself cheap.
2006-07-29 02:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋