i dont trust my husband beacuase he looks at the other girls and he likes to talk with them and he works in the hotels and all the time he is with the tourists and i want to know about his treatment when he is not with me and if i know that he treats well i will trust him and i like to take the film from him when he is not with me but i dont know what should i do beacause i need to trust him and if not i will divorce.help me.
2006-07-29 02:23:58 · 10 answers · asked by uussuu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off your not trying to find out about his treatment but his behavior. And what do you mean if he treats well you will trust him? To me that means if he treats other women well you will trust him but if not you'll divorce him. Use the proper language here. But regarding your question, if you don't trust him, obviously he's done something to take that trust away or you are just insecure. If there's no trust, then there's no relationship. Unless he's given you a reason to suspect him of doing something then you need to let it go, otherwise hire a private eye.
2006-07-29 02:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you can do is have one or two days off, then you go spy on him to see what he doing. first thing you need to see what his hand where wedding band on his left finger. If not have it, should have it on. If he comes home with ring on when he around and if you go to the hotel that ring is not on him??? something wrong.
I am a male I always have my ring on know that who I am married to and who i have her my trust, knowing other people know that I am married.
When you do see that band is off wait.. keep eye on him see how he do or treat women? If you notice that he don't do that with you when he around? If the going on tourists and have your friend that he didn't know that person and see what see and video carma and letting you know wha tyou see when friend follow your husband.
Just look around the house see what he might hide from you? Check the Garage or anywhere if he have office at home check it out make sure see what you can find. Check his celluar phone if you find anything bills or the list that you never seen that number before.
so many list you can find smiling. I am sorry about what you going though hope this helps.
2006-07-29 02:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reality that your husband isn't a hundred% trustworthy with you, to me, it quite is an rather extreme warning that your marriage is headed interior the incorrect path till he transformations his ideas-set, in my view he does that because of the fact he does not love you as much as he might desire to love you and if there is not any thoroughly basic communique between a husband and spouse that destroys any and all love finally that evey existed between the husband and spouse, the place there is not any reality there is not any have faith and the place there is not any have faith there is not any love. you're able to desire to check out and discover out in a a hundred% clean way precisely why precisely he does that to you and if he keeps to try this i propose you and your husband get marriage counseling from an expert marriage counselor and that i emphezise the observe "expert" and if that doesn't restore the issue i don't comprehend yet possibly you may desire to heavily evaluate divorcing him because of the fact it quite is to not your appropriate interest to be married to somebody that's not basic to you, in spite of the shown fact that in case you hit upon out precisely why precisely he does that to then you possibly you may make certain a plan and or a answer to the issue. i might desire to show to you that I certainly have on no account been married and that i'm fifty 5 years previous so possibly my advise isn't a hundred% valid because of the fact I certainly have on no account experienced what it feels to be married.
2016-12-10 16:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Private Investigation arrange one
2006-07-29 02:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do any solution in hurring up the situation
I just want to say that if u have the problem with ur husband just talk with him that will be satisfied way to treat with any problem if he is co-operative ok just say what u feel about him
Then he will too replay for u if behave politely
2006-07-29 02:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ravi L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure hire a private investigator.But you really need to build trust.
2006-07-29 02:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
private detective cant put a price on piece of mind on the other hand if theres no trust theres nothing really
2006-07-29 02:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator to check him out for you - they will get pictures and details and all for you!
2006-07-29 02:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do that. caz u will be in big problem. why u want to ruin yr life?
2006-07-29 02:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy.
2006-07-29 02:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋