Say I pulled a young lady and we went back to her house and the obvious was going to happen.
She asks me very nicely to go down on her (I have no objection in doing this)
I ask her if she would do one thing for me and that is to wash herself in that area.
Would any girls who are reading this be offended by me asking this?
(I did do the biz some months ago but she was the most dirtiest girl I have ever experienced. And it has quite truthfully put me off doing this)
Any answers appreciated
2006-07-29 02:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Definately agree with heading to the shower for some foreplay & freshing up. I would always make certain I am "fresh" down there if getting intimate with someone was the plan. I'd be turned off too if I went down on a guy & it was a stinky experience. I don't think it's in poor taste to ask someone to freshen up..(no pun intended)!
2006-07-29 03:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by brody 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Firsty, why would you want to if she has poor personal hygine? if she is smelly or has discharge it maybe that she could possibly have some type of infection.
being with somebody else like that, you would think, well, ... i would at least, that you want it to be nice, fresh and tidy so you can both relax and enjoy the expericance.
Rather than you dreading it. if you have to tell her, then she is not really being that considerate of you, and perhaphs she needs telling, she may not even be aware that there is a problem. but there are ways to do this deliactly, depending upon if your looking for a reationship or casual? perhaps suggesting a bath together or intamate shower before hand?
Good Luck! :)
2006-07-29 03:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by jessica_mornington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you've put her off for a start, i'm assuming she would BE clean, some people are very unhygenic, you had a bad apple in the cart ...but even with the cleanliest couple, its still nice to Freshen up before the deed!
no woman in their right mind would allow you if she felt unclean, i know i owuldn't, eps after mensturation, it cant be nice, ph balcnce changes throughout the month, clean or not, just becasue a bloke washes his **** in the am, doesn;'t mean it will taste good in the Pm...natural daily odour should ALWAYS be washed away before oral sex...ugh, dont blame you for being put off but you shouldn't have said that to her...she'll be paranoid now thinking she stinks
2006-07-29 23:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude to ask someone about his cleanness, but to me you should always treat people the way you would like to be treated. So if you know that some how you are not clean, get any excuse and go wash yourself. Also if you don't know the other person you could get her to do the same by starting a playful game. Be aware of STD and HIV.
2006-07-29 02:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by naidine63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man always get them in the shower first as part of foreplay then you do not need to ask them to wash they would be clean enough. Hopefully they wouldn't be offended, we live and learn by our experiences in life. wash everything before you eat it, didn't your mother ever tell you that. Be careful it's a part of safe sex practices.
2006-07-29 02:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by clarissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be offended, buy oyu must tell her to wash herself well! or otherwise take her to the bathroom, and wash her down there and tell her just as a foreplay and she won't realize but tell her while washing her that she must wash herself with soap to attract you more fro better fragrance and how to wash it properly!
i would suggest u choose another one. i can't believe in this world people of middle class don't know how to wash themselves, I met ppl like this, you are not alone, that get offended easily, when you are telling them soemthing to help them in improving themselves!
2006-07-29 03:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you completely killed any romance and sponteneity there. She probably also took offence as it seemed you thought she was unhygenic (I'm guessing if she was you wouldn't have offered in the first place)...
How would you have felt if the shoe was on the other foot..
2006-07-29 02:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by blahmph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bit rude but if you explain what happened before i would be happy too nothing like a smelly down stairs to put you off
2006-07-29 03:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Clarissa - get in the shower with her and wash it for her - she can wash yours too - its an awesome experience - if it still smells bad after a shower u know to leave it alone
2006-07-29 02:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way would I do this with out knowing the person for a while. What if she had a sexually transmitted desease. You cannot actually see them.
2006-07-29 02:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Hunio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋