2006-07-29 01:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by john mark 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You could always go off before him by having him go down on you before you have sex. Or you could try going off at the same time as him if you stimulate you clit while your having sex. You can either do it yourself or using a vibrator on your clit while you having sex that's what I do.
2006-07-29 03:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by rights it should be ladies first.guys always seem to blow first and it's not fair. better talk to your partner about it and get him to work on you a bit before he blows. Now if it's not a guy partner and you are a lesbian well be sure you both get pleasure by doing what ever it takes including masterbation and oral to get that orgasm your aiming for, but keep in mind it's not always about that and sometimes just playing around with yourselves with toys etc can also be fun but nothing beats the big O or even a little one. ha ha he he be adventurous. Teach your partner what you like best and they will learn how to push all the right buttons to please you making it enjoyable for you both. You don't want to be left high and dry it's not good for the spirit.
2006-07-29 09:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by clarissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not care about you after?
1. you tell him that you start to be frustrated
2. you ask him to give you pleasure at least with oral sex first.
3. next time he comes, you masturbate besides him
Many men know that female take longer to reach orgasm so they give pleasure to their partners first and always.
2006-07-29 09:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl should get hers before sex, as in orally!
2006-07-29 09:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn to think about you and not just worry about himself. Sometimes as men get older they do pay more attention to their partners needs. that is diffence between men and boys.
2006-07-29 13:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by jingles_200 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
demand for it!!! haha... but seriously, I'm a guy, and I usually try to get the women satisfied first cos after I'm done, I'm DONE!
2006-07-29 09:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by mochabara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace him as a lover
2006-07-29 10:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by FieryAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, just wait. until next time.
2006-07-29 08:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even when he's finished u can carry on..
2006-07-29 09:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋