my wife cannopt handle my high sex drive which makes me left without satisfaction all the time so i want some more outside
2006-07-29 01:20:06 · 14 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok first of all think of what you are saying - imagine your wife posting a question like this also wanting some good loving from someone else? would you like that?
i think your high sex drive is due to the fact that maybe you are spending too much time satisfying it rather than satisfying her. so in the end there is nothing in it for her but just a marital service and thats it.
so before you give up and think of ways of cheating - spend time trying to figure out what makes her really enjoy sex , spend a little more extra time on oral sex , spend a little more time complimenting her body and not by words - eg: hold her hand while driving. give her a kiss on the head while she is cleaning up or get up and make her some tea so she knows you do apprieate her. the next thing is to think if what you want done in bed to you, once you have thought of that do it to her instead, so you like a bit more of touching in your sensitive areas, you like to be held in a certain way, you like to use cetain things in bed- instead dedicate your time ( maybe bout 2 a week ) pleasing her- even if it means her pleasing is more oral then the real thing then do it. you will find yourself having longer and more oftern sex as she will want to do the same . most men think that women are instantly ready to have sex but women need a little more work - after the first few times of you showing an effort women become more willing to do more daring things. as long as they know its going to be just as good for them as it is for you they will have sex t least 5 - times a week and you will then be satisfied.
one more thing- try finding out her sexual fantacies - you will be suprised !! give it another go and if she is still not up for it then by all means consider leaving and getting it some where else cause she might not be sexualy attracted to you. also find out if it hurts her cause then it might be medical condition that could easily be sorted out and she will stop avoiding sex.
2006-07-29 01:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by candystore 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
get divorced FIRST, then go do what you want. Hurting her or anyone else is NOT the answer. If her sex drive is the problem, go find someone with a higher sex drive AFTER the divorce. I really suspect the problem may be more with you than with her.
2006-07-29 01:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by debrieanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not gonna give you the answer to that cause if you cheat on your wife your a complete a*s. if you need to get sex elsewhere and wanna cheat tell her how you feel about the sex before you do all this. go to couples therapy etc.
2006-07-29 01:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your wife maybe you leave her without satisfaction. Or perhaps she is getting it else where....Not so nice when its the other way around is it....if its really that bad...use your hand.
2006-07-29 08:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find you a internet site that you can meet women on ..there is alot out there and there is alot of married women who are not getting enough at home and just want more..find you someone close to home...alot of them just want a friend with benefits..and have fun worked for me..but trust me go with only married woman as the single woman tent to want more than sex.
2006-07-29 01:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by jay s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cheat that just goes to show how selfish you are, if you cheat , that just goes to show you never loved your wife, stop being selfish and be a real man, real men spend time with their family and they dont cheat, you need to grow up and stop thinking of yourself.
2006-07-29 03:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...i think i speak for every girl here when i say : GO CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!
Stop disrupting our discussions with this infidelity! You dont deserve her.
2006-07-29 01:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a can of red paint ~
Get a paint brush~
Now paint these words across your chest ~
Honey you are married to a freaking nut ~
Please divorce me now!!
Hopefully she'll get the hint and run like the wind!
2006-07-29 03:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Matured One 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to change your wife. say her that she is not upto you, and show her some sex movies or books, but don't try to chat your wife.
2006-07-29 01:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Chikky D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL>> Having fun yet? Ya dork!
2006-07-29 01:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋