So last night this guy fingered me for the first time. It was uncomfortable, but I was ok. And when I peed last night I was ok, a bit uncomfortable, but ok. This morning I had this horrible burning and when I touched myself I was very tender. Is that normal?
2006-07-29 01:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I take it that you are a virgin still, right? If that is the case, several things could have gone wrong here. He could have been too rough with you and either scratched or tore something; he could have destroyed your hymen if this is the first type of penetration that you had and you do not use tampons; his finger could have been dirty or he could have had some dirt under his nail that transferred to your vagina; more than likely it sounds like you are new to all this and your vagina is going to be very sensitive.
Give it some time, I promise that it does get better! :) Your body needs to adjust to the things that are happening to it now, and that takes a period of time. Each person is different, but be patient. And you body will heal from this as well. I would suggest sitting in a good hot bath for a soak if you can handle that, and make sure that over the next few days you keep yourself VERY clean. I don't mean cleaning as in using harsh chemicals or powders, just a soft wash cloth with soap and water should be fine. Allow your body to produce its own fluids to heal you, and you should be fine within a few days. And you definately don't want to aggrivate the situation by having more sexual activity down there. That would only make it worse for you! If you are not feeling better in a couple days, you need to see a Dr. Things heal up pretty quickly down there, so if you are still hurting by the end of the week, see medical attention.
2006-07-29 01:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by swedchef13 2 · 11⤊ 2⤋
No, he may have passed some Bacteria to you. See a Dr.or buy some Vasgisil. Or ask your local Pharmist what you need to get for this, over the counter.
2006-07-29 01:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, It is not normal, Fingering is not a natural way to have sex, you might have injury
Inside the vagina which later on might have developed infection, causing pain and burning.See your Gynecologist.
2006-07-29 02:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have scratched you with is nails. Make him get a MANicure first next time, lol!
2006-07-29 02:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must of did it to hard. Just take a hot bath and give it a day or so. Is that your first sexual encounter? If so he may of ripped your hymen.
2006-07-29 01:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Princessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not getting better see your Doctor, don't be embassed it could of caused a small rip ,, he can give you something to keep it from getting infected
2006-07-29 01:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by nevada_lady2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that he may have scratched you with his nail. You just need to let that heal by it self. NO MORE FINGERING.....If/when you let someone finger you again, make sure their nails are clean and cut short.....
2006-07-29 01:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by pussy_kat_365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he wash his hands he my have had dirt on his hands all was make a guy wash his hands before any thing.
2006-07-29 01:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure that happens to almost everyone. i'm not sure exactly what it is, but it happened to me my first time.
2006-07-29 01:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by prrriamarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he wash his hands first?
2006-07-29 01:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋