2006-07-29 01:17:16 · 15 answers · asked by queencole35 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-29 01:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Whamper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to have feelings of "love" for two men at the same time, but true love is expressed in actions--in showering someone with attention, in spending time with someone and looking out for his needs, in getting to know what makes him happy or upset or scared or angry, in encouraging and supporting him in his dreams--you can't give this kind of focus and devotion to two men at once. The feelings themselves come and go and aren't always worth a whole lot.
What to do? Choose the one you want to love (which is the smarter choice?) and focus all of your attention, time, and energy on that man and none on the other. Your feelings for the first will grow and for the second, will fade away.
2006-07-29 01:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself is it love or lust? decide which relationship is BEST for your well being regardless of attraction, then make the choice between the two. It IS possible to love more than one person at a time, just different kinds of love. Where is communication best and which one holds the same values and goals as you do. Those are the things that are important in the long term in any relationship.
2006-07-29 01:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by debrieanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you really love two people at the same time? I really don't think so. You might like two people but I don't think a normal person was wired to love two.
Hold up...perhaps you're not talking about IN love...only love. If that is the case. That is possible.
Suggest that you pick your poison immediately.
2006-07-29 01:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really hard one.
You need to ask yourself, which one loves you more? You need to be with that man.
Im in a bit of a sticky situation myself at the moment. Luckily I don't like one of them anymore, but they are best friends.
If you stay with both of them, everyone is going to get hurt one day. If you do actually love them, then you can't do that to either of them, it's just not fair.
Try going away for a couple of weeks or so... by yourself. While away, try to think it over. Perhaps you are just tied up in the whole 'love triangle' and by removing yourself from the situation it might make it more clearer to you.
Good luck, I know how awkward it is.
2006-07-29 01:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by kara_nari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really dont love both its just that they have different interest and u like the characters they have so all u should do now is take time off from both and look inside u and see what u really want the answer will came to u good luck
2006-07-29 01:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love two men at the same time...
Who r u trying to cheat?? 1st or the 2nd?
ask yourself.what do u want? If both then I guess as suggested THREESOME
2006-07-29 01:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by hotbull3838 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be sharing yr only heart with two men sametimes..truely in love with both men is impossible. pls be honest with yrself & make some adjustment & don't be greedy or you got none in the end.
2006-07-29 01:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are in a hell of a situation.. how can you be in love with 2 .. 1 is not enough ?
2006-07-29 01:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Peps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either one or both of them find out about each other then you will lose both of them.... be honest with yourself and to them... either pick one or give them both up and be just friends..
2006-07-29 01:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋