Not all married people who commit adultry, have unhappy marriages or a bad sex life. Yet so many, otherwise decent, loving people do. Why?
2006-07-29 01:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you look at some of the other questions that are asked on Yahoo! Answer, you'll notice that some men will ask "Why doesn't my wife want to have sex anymore?" I think it's because of this...men and women are very much alike, yet very different. Men really enjoy sex. To them it's fun, it's a game. Men love to feel desired. If a woman ignores them or misunderstands them and is constantly belittling them, then the man will roam away. Where women will only have sex with someone, if they feel loved and appreciated. Women need the emotional love to want to have sex, not the physical, where men just want to have sex.
That's why women love to make the mood romantic. Candles, soft music. Men could really care less. They don't need all of that stuff to have "sex". Then you have the women who go to bars and pick up who ever they may care to have that night. Don't be mistaken; these women have very low self-esteems and are really looking for someone to love them. They've been so battered down in their past that they think they are not worthy of love and respect. They won't admit to this but it's true. And since men view sex differently than women do, men take advantage of women like that.
If a woman doesn't feel loved and appreciated, she will go seek out someone else to provide that for her. If a man isn't getting satisfaction at home, and feels like he's being ignored and misunderstood than he too will stray.
2006-07-29 01:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are selfish, unhappy with themselves and feel entitled to do whatever they choose. They are never content with anything in their life. Cheaters will always be cheaters and always like having their cake and eating it too. They are the lowest form of a spouse you can get.
2006-07-29 08:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly for variety in sex, sometimes they just arent getting enough attention in or out of the bedroom in their marriages. there are really ALOT of reasons why people stray. usually something is just "missing" in their relationship in one way or another. Most times it ISNT about sex
2006-07-29 08:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by debrieanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are looking for something they think they are not getting at home.
Instead of communicating with their partner, they look to another to make them feel fulfilled, generally hurting all party's involved.
2006-07-29 08:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from being cheated on by both my ex husbands it is they get bored,communication has stopped,the excitement has left.. I could go on and on with that answer..
2006-07-29 08:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by shappa72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting some excitements & cheap thrills.boredom,miscommunications, trust,etc has causes couples to go stray.
2006-07-29 08:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple,their not getting what they REALLY want.Thus they go out in search for what they feel they need to make them complete.
2006-07-29 08:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their partner is either boring or unwilling to do certain sex acts .
2006-07-29 08:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is our nature.
2006-07-29 08:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋