2006-07-29 00:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by klunk 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no one will attack you honey. At least I can't imagine a gay person attacking anyone. *hug* I'm sorry that you are too shy. Being shy can actually be an advantage, I know that shy boys who cast their eyes down and smiled sweetly always captured my heart very quickly -- but being too shy hurts. I'm sorry that you have that hurt.
Believe in yourself and know that you are loved. Don't be shy with me, email me if you need to talk.
Be in love,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-07-29 02:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
I have no idea if this is a joke or for real. If it is a joke, you need to work on your humor. If it is real, you need to work on yourself. The shy inherit nothing. And it is not their fault...it is a genetic condition, and I suspect you have been like this your entire life...watching as life passes you by. I do have some advice if this is for real. And this is no joke! Join a volunteer group and wear this little tag on your shirt..." I am a very shy person...please help me to be more outgoing." You will be amazed at how people will respond to this! They will draw you into conversations, they will bend over backwards to include you, and you will become less and less fearful of strangers as a result. I am not saying you will become outgoing, but you never know...I was very shy as a teen, but over time, I have become downright aggressive with people, meeting them, etc. It is a learned thing, and you can learn it to...you just need kind help from people who care. Your tag will get it for you. Just be honest if they ask you, "is this for real?"
AS to being attacked, I am sorry to say that those who do not defend themselves are attacked with great regularity, in one way or another. It is very important that you learn social skills as quickly as possible to defend yourself and not be a target. I sincerely hope this helps. If I were in your vicinity, I would certainly help you come out of your shell. And you can email me if you want to talk...just include a line, such as "the shy one" and I will know who it is from. I get far too many emails without knowing what the writer is talking about. Good luck.
2006-07-29 14:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it is like to be shy when I was younger. It is a very real and painful condition. With it comes feelings of insecurity and sometimes paranoia. Most of it is imagined. Go and and find some activities where you will feel part of things more and do not be afraid to be who you are. We are, thank God, all different. If we wanted everyone to be the same as us life would be boring. And not only that, if everyone was the same as us together with our faults which we all have, life would not be much fun either. Talk to someone you trust about your fears. My thoughts are with you.
2006-07-29 07:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by artisana222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. People can smell your type from a mile away. Go hide under the bed until it is safe to come out.
mbooohooooo, take your flashlight and your national geographic magazine with you as well, you might become bored down there.
By the way, I think you chose the perfect category for this question- it makes sense in ways that nobody else will ever understand in their lifetime.
2006-07-29 07:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question has no merit. Ask something intelligent.
2006-07-29 07:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why post this is the gay section?
2006-07-29 07:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋