If Ur child isn't`t from Ur husband should u tell him? Or better don`t tell if he`s sure in u?

Answer 1

Anyone can be a father it takes a special person to be a daddy. That decision is up to you but really why break hearts if everyone is happy. I don"t know what you should do. Maybe just let it lie for right now.

Answer 2

It is really important to tell these kind of things. By not telling you will do harm to all three of you. First of all the feeling of not being honest will haunt you for the rest of your life. Second, your husband will subconsciously sense from your subconscious clues that something is wrong. It will eventually pervert his relationship to you and to your child.

And the most important reason is for the sake of your child. Because a child will for sure sense subconsciously that something is not quite right, and that there is a lie involved in his/her life. Will bring future mental problems. Any child can take the truth no matter how strange, but a lie can do only damage.

So, have courage and good luck.

Answer 3

You should tell him and should own up to your responsibilities as a mother and also let the other father know he is a dad , maybe your husband will understand and maybe not that is for you two too work out, you made the mistake you must live with it and do that child right , and not be selfish. Harsh but true.

Answer 4

Well, don't expect him to be pleased at all, & this will most likely,will be very upsetting for him, but better let him know, because if a Health Issue, should come up later in the child's Health, & they need the Father's Medical Info. what will you do then? It wouldn't be good for your Husband to find out that way, at all! Think about it.

Answer 5

be true in your self or you always feel the guilt. Time would come and it would reveal the truth. Don't wait for that time 'coz you would not just only hurt the man who's thinking his the father but also the child.. Telling the truth might hurt you but forgiveness can make you feel happy and live a better life as the child grows up.. just have faith in your self.

Answer 6

Think about the Kid now.. you have don't what you had.. now if you end up telling your husband,, might be his attitude towards the child would be harsh .. bury the truth in your heart for the sake of the kid & keep loving your husband more & more,, so that even if he gets to know the truth he should realize that u did repend for it.

Answer 7

Well i would tell him and get the DNA testing done.. think about this....... what happens if the kid gets sick and needs something like a organ.. they are going to want to test the parents.. then what happens when the doctors tell him he is not the father! then ur butt is going to be up **** creek without a paddle... and family history for the kid.. you are giving wrong info that could possably help the kid.

Answer 8

Sooner or later he will find out - yes indeed he will.
The statistics from surgery tell that ever 10th child has another father than he is told to be.

Answer 9

You should tell him because it could affect the way he lives and treats your child. Just tell him at the right time. You should tell him that you wanna be honest. Hope everything works out!

Answer 10

so you are saying , you are married right now,had an affair and got pregnant and dont want to tell your husband?
well, if you dont want to have trust in your marriage then dont say anything, since you dont care about your marriage in the first place by having this affair.
i have seen talk shows on tv that the guilt these women have from carrying this lie with them is more than they can handle they end up telling them anyways and go to talk shows to do it. instead of confronting their husbands.

so go ahead and dont say anything if:
you can live with yourself without trust and the guilt from keeping this lie to yourself.