hey i need sumone who can give actal good advice!!!!!!!! plz i need ur help?

Question

i started my new school n i met this guy well we didnt really talk to each other but he was funny now we still dont talk sometimes iv seen him staring at me eve wen i look back i find him staring but in his eyes i can see hatred or atleast thats wat i feel so sumtimes my heart says that he really likes me but then my mind thinks that he dosent hav feelings the only reason he looks at me is because he feels that i look at him n like him and i really do i cant even ask his frenz coz wel his frenz r not really my type of ppl see he n his friends are more of the poular gang n me and my friends are normal teenagers not geeks not popular so well yesterday i went to this dance party he was there 2 but this time i dint really c him looking at me i cant talk to him cause of my personal problems i cant ask ma frenz coz i dont trust them just yet not so easily so wat should i do how do i *** to know tht if he likes me or not plz i really need ur advice if u chatting tania_sharma_100100100@yahoo

Answer 1

I would say relax...don't be in such a hurry.

When you feel comfortable enough to talk...you will.

Until then...gang mentality fosters hate.
And it may be he's trying to intimidate you.
Until you are comfortable enough to say hello...you won't know what's going on.

good luck...

Answer 2

You are fixated way too much on this guy--trying to read his mind and determine what every look (or lack of a look) means. First of all, not every expression on a person's face means something. Secondly, not everyone is thinking about YOU all of the time. Third, if you ask grown people if they were "popular" in school, most of them say "no" and that "other kids were the popular ones."

The way you are over-thinking and over-analyzing this guy's every move is not an attractive quality. You sound very insecure. Stop worrying about this guy (or any guys) for a while and focus on becoming a strong and confident girl. Do that by dealing with some of your "personal problems," by finding a hobby or sport that you like and working to become good at it, by learning as much as you can in school and doing as well as possible, by becoming kind and friendly and taking an interest in other people and their concerns, and so on. These are the things that build your own character and, in time, will make you more attractive to quality guys.

Answer 3

i had this sort of thing before im not the most confident person in the world so i was always thinking does he doesnt he, sumtimes hed look at me like he wanted me other times he treat me like i didnt exist but i started makin small talk when i saw him hust hi and bye then it gradually become conversations i found out his interests and i liked sum of the things he did it just came naturally we got close over time and although it never came to a relationship we had fun and now i consider him a friend. At school i fancied popular blokes but i realised that when their by themselves they are just normal people and if he minded u looking at him im sure he wud just let u know and wouldnt just stare back at u. men arnt the smartest at times so they need a push in the right direction at times. just dont act like a stalker never run after a man act cool, maybe flash him ur cutest smile next time he looks at u. hope i helped a bit.

Answer 4

hai thaniya......felling really nice to read yo post...hmmm...it remembers me of my days......i too had the same xprnce.....my mind was disturbed....sleepless nights.....no hunger.......but i succeded in winning my love and now we both live a very happy married life.....i never told him that i loved him ....as u said,'his frenz r not really my type of ppl see he n his friends are more of the poular gang n me and my friends are normal teenagers not geeks not popular so well'................but after 1yr he came and told me that he had been loving me for the....but was unable to say coz he too wasnt sure abt my luv.........

anyway,if u r not that sure of his luv better not to go and tell him..... coz u will get depressed......but if he loves u im sure he'll come and tell u.... ALL THE BEST

Answer 5

First of all play old fashion make him talk to you. Stop starring or at least do not let him see you look at him. Or another one you could do the next time he sees you and he is looking at you blow him a kiss that will get him then walk away.

Answer 6

I know that it is very exciting to think someone "likes" you. We all want to be loved to one degree or another. The desire is particularly strong in the young because it is unfettered by the real world. This guy is defined by his friends. You don't like the friends. The only thing that attracts you is that you thought he "liked" you, and you hunger for someone. Hard place to be. As hard as it is to give up transferring your image of that special someone to this guy, the reality is he is not that special someone. Move on.

Answer 7

"You can tell them by the friends and company they keep", so goes the old and valid saying. If he is with "gangs" and "geeks" then what the heck do you want him for? to introduce you to trouble and unknown perils? for heaven's sake keep-off him and don't even look at him, from what you're saying he's nothing but trouble and if you're for company and friendship then find somebody from your own peaceful people. Take care, cutie, don't do anything foolish.

Answer 8

My cousin who lives within the tri-state discipline. She has three institution levels that she slightly used. She makes a good dwelling making use of none of them. But she has her dream process!!! She teaches at a individual university and conjures up many.

Answer 9

babe it may be the curiosity of ur age. or just a misunderstanding b/w u both; anyway, u have to talk to him. just cheer up dear, u don't have to lose ur heart in such silly things. me thinks its just an adolescent angst. leave it. there is a whole world waiting to see u succeed in life. study well best wishes.

Answer 10

Sounds like you have a fear of rejection if you can't even go up to him and ask, so i would suggest waiting till you mature a little, then start looking for a relationship. ♥