Help ! I'm an asian man who love BBW but it's so hard to find a BBW willing to date me
2006-07-28 23:40:55 · 12 answers · asked by asian_man_admires_bbw 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Wow...yea you're one of maybe 3 asian guys I've heard of that have a thing for BBW...but then again we are the best. BBW dating sites could help....going to clubs, or any other normal thing really. We go to clubs, too, lol. Oh, and I'm a BBW who likes asian guys ;) just thought I'd toss that in.
2006-07-30 16:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~Nafissah~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is interesting. I've never met an Asian man who likes big ladies. Go to adultfriendfinder.com, okay that's for sex.
If you want to date a BBW, check out the singles ads or a website for romantic relationships. Good Luck.
The qualities BBW find attractive in a man are, I'm sure, quite similar to those of any woman.
2006-07-28 23:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a 'BBW' lesbian, but I'd personally not want to date a woman who identifies as a BBW admirer, because, to be perfectly honest, the whole BBW thing feels like fetishisation of larger women. I've seen the BBW label applied to women who are certainly large but don't have attractive faces or attractively feminine figures, despite the second 'B' supposedly meaning "beautiful".
I can think of things besides my above-average size I'd rather a lover like me for, like my freckles, my geek streak, my dubious artistic abilities.
In an attempt to be helpful, I'll give what you might be doing wrong a go. Thin to average women are usually self-conscious about their figures, but have enough self esteem in their physical appearance that if a man says they have a nice figure, they might not believe him, but they'll believe he believes it. A fat woman is not just self-conscious, she's constantly being told her size is a) completely voluntary and b) disgusting. Regardless of how attractively that fat is arranged, a fat woman living in modern society has extreme difficulty believing somebody might find her fat attractive.
So, start with physical complements that would be just as true if she were skinny: nice eyes, hair, freckles, whatever. As soon as you know her well enough to complement her on her personality, do so. Don't mention that you admire her figure until she's comfortable with your total admiration, which if she's been very badly broken by anti-fat messages, honestly may not be until you've been married several years. Obviously, if you have sex before she's really comfortable with your admiration, you'll have to mention that you don't find her figure off-putting, but not off-putting and attractive are two very different things.
2006-07-29 03:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the person. I know that a lot of people as well as myself use the term "beautiful" loosely. But for me the difference is in the strength of the features. Women tend to have more delicate and softer features which is probably why we get the "pretty" or "beautiful" title more often because its usually equated with femininity. Handsome to me says strong and masculine. I've seen women with slightly more masculine features like a stronger jaw or brow or nose but it was still beautiful because of the way the features looked together. It depends on what a person likes or how people perceive beauty. Not everyone's views are the same.
2016-03-16 08:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twinkies.
2006-07-28 23:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by tricky k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice personality & caringness
2006-07-29 01:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by arkaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money
2006-07-28 23:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by The Bawss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to date her.
2006-07-28 23:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a clue.next
2006-07-28 23:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by unknown u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta have a great personality!!!
2006-07-28 23:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋