my mom has recently married a man who has a son. so hez is my stepdad. but my stepbro doesnot live with us. he visits us once a week for saturdays and sundays .my step bro is atrracted towards me. he wants a relationship with me. i`m 19 and he is 21. initially i refused. but last week wen he visited, the both of us wer watching a movie. and he proposed me again. i refused, but something wrong happend and we end up smooching. wot shall i do?
2006-07-28 23:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Technically you are not related by blood so that is legal.
Morally a bit weird to say the least.
OK. let say you get it on,
you have to keep it secret.....ugh...
when the parents find out...wow hell will break loos
end result you break up, family in turmoil, you in tears.
gained nothing other than a lot of very unhappy people.
OK you want to be kissed hugged and whatever else. go and fin another nice guy. it looks as if he does not understand NO. Try another language, like a bucket of ice down his trousers.
Seriously kiddo, control the hormones and urges and find a guy you can walk hand in hand with and intro him to your family with pride.
2006-07-29 01:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Foxey 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You aren't related by blood, so legally and morally there's no problem. But if it makes you uncomfortable, it's not good to give in to pressure from him. If you sort of like him, tell him to give you some space and time. If he keeps pushing, tell him off and you might speak to his dad about it. You have the right not to be pressured, even if you are attracted to him too.
2006-07-29 06:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is kind of weird but if thats the way you roll... I think you are a girl, but you never stated so. He is your stepbrother though. I dunno. You dont want to have a relationship and end up hating eachother since your parents are married. That wouldn't be fun at reunion parties and stuff, so I would say no go relationship.
2006-07-29 06:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by rain rain rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is difficult.
Just try to find out what do you feel for him. He can be only one person for you - whether it would be your brother or your lover, that depends on you.
Make a choice and then make everything go your way.
You can do it, girl!
2006-07-29 06:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Romy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you like him and obviously he likes you then go out with him and talk to your parents and see what they think about the situation.
2006-07-29 07:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave baby!
2006-07-29 06:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Awais 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so it happened and now u want to find an excuse. if u were both happy, no problem. but do not continue.
2006-07-29 06:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST> don't tell any one else you kissed ,
SECOND> thats nasty get control of your hormones
THIRD>the first time you said no that should have been it go with your first instinct.
2006-07-29 06:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by HONEY*B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not blood related so It is alright!
2006-07-29 06:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Retarded Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u do this, he is ur brother r u mad to make this relation
2006-07-29 06:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋