The three sides of the triangle include me, my best friend (girl), and another girl.
Please underatand my problem.
I have a very trustworthy, understanding, fearless, and a talented best friend. She I and I know each other for quite a long time. Then there came in another girl in my life looking at whom I felt that she is the one for me. I took an instant liking for her. Now this girl is also understanding, mature minded, caring about me, but extremely sensitive and shy.
There have been things in the past between me and my best friend that I would never like her to know.
But I really like my best friend and do not want to loose my best friend.
The girl whom I like I guess knows about that past between me and my friend.
She no more pays heeds to me.
I still have my best friend at my side.
Whom should I select? and Why?
2006-07-28 23:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
best friend knows u completely and has already accepted u as her friend and u can rely on her more.
2006-07-28 23:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-07-28 23:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's something I'd (me) hazard to recommend, because it's very complex already and something only you can ultimately resolve. I think what will happen though is that with the passage of a little more time, it will resolve itself with you having to make much of a selection. Your emotions will be so weighted in one direction that the other girl is going to see it or discover it, and it will bring things to the forefront of confrontation. The situation itself will be in control, rather than any of the participants such as yourself.
2006-07-28 23:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have to make a decison between the two because of the one you love pretty much says it all. She is obviously threatened by the relationship you have/had with you friend. Which is more important to you...your friend or this other girl?
2006-07-28 23:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is no longer a love triangle this is call being desirable , in my case this is referred to as being hansome. :) Get use to it! If there is one guy which you rather like out of the three then tell that guy and each little thing else will fall into place! quite rather trouble-free
2016-11-03 06:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr Handsome guy, you are so fortunate having two gf.take one as a wife & other as a gd friend forever.
2006-07-28 23:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have selected, she's still at your side.
2006-07-28 23:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now insted of reading ur long story i should kick on ur A S SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
2006-07-28 23:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by deep_aris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋