I am 23 and sexually confused. Bear with me. I love the looks of females and love to treat them well. I get sexally excited by looking at them. The hair,eyes,"girl smells"(purfume,etc) etc just drives me insane. But I dont like sex with them. "Pu$$y" just doesnt get me horny. The only way I can have sex with a girl is oral or anal. Thats the only way I get hard or off.Guys dont turn me on. I check them out but My mind tells me its wrong.When Im alone I only think of guys.Sometimes girls must mostly guys. I had sex with men and found it incedible and I love giving and recieving. I have had sex with girls but didnt find it incedible. I liked it but I felt wrong. I am attracted to girls sexually. Guys really dont turn me on sexually. But I love sex with guys more than girls. I just cant see myself living with a guy.I love beings a guy's b**tch(girl).Maybe its cause Im taught being gay is wrong.
Do you think Im gay or bi? Please help me. Im sucidial over this it bothers me all day
2006-07-28 22:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by DEATH IS FUNNY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From the answers I got, I am concerned. I dont wannabe gay. I mean, I still check out girls and like sex with them but not as much as I check out and like sex with guys.Im the only child and I want to have my own kids someday. I am sexually attracted to a girl's looks and all but if I had the options I would only cuddle in bed than have sex.Im sucidial cause I think of this all the time. Even when I look like my mind is busy at work, Im thinking of this.
Question to gay men-Did you ever feel like a woman? not dress or act but just like feel like they do? (liking female things(rainbows,animals,clothes etc),being "soft",like being dominated by men(sexually?)
Im being serious. I feel like Im a woman trapped inside a man's body. I like masculine things, but I Idenify more with females.
2006-07-28 23:11:02 · update #1
You are bi.
2006-07-28 23:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get suicidal over this!!! Its something that you can deal with. No reason to do anything drastic! I really believe its b/c you are gay. Yes, you like women but I believe that it is the smells, and just being a woman. You keep telling yourself that it's wrong that is why you are so confused. Go talk to a professional. That will help you. Why fight it if that is how you truly feel? What is wrong with it? If your gay, then your gay. Please go talk to someone and don't do anything to yourself.
2006-07-28 23:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay mate. No doubt. I'm gay and it did take me a while to accept. But theres nothing wrong with it no matter what the assholes say. You are entirely normal. Deal with it, accept it and meet other gay guys you can relate to and talk with. Don't be suicidal over something that you can't help. And don't give a flying f*ck what people think (especially the homophobes). Good luck mate!
2006-07-28 23:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gay. If you were sexually satisfied with both then you would be considered bi, but you're not, so you are gay. What you do with this information and the rest of your life is up to you. But be happy with whatever you choose. Life is worth living. Just live it wisely. I will be praying for you.
2006-07-28 23:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered dating shemale/transsexuals? You get the look of a woman but the sex of a man. Have you allowed a woman to use a strap-on with you? That might add a little excitement to being with a woman. It would be even better if you could find one that loves receiving anal sex. Look in to shemales.
2006-07-28 23:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by makeherwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay.......you just haven't found "Mr. Right" yet. When you do he will turn you on sexually both inside and out. Being gay is wrong in some peoples eyes, not all. Be proud of who and what you are.
2006-07-28 23:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 06:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out Dude...you are just Bi...look at it this way....you just doubled your opportunities for meeting sexual partners!
2006-07-28 23:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry!There are gays everywhere.I think you are a gay.Don't be confused,you are a gay and be proud of it.
2006-07-28 23:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by Nickname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship of any kind is no excuse to be suicidal. you are gay.
2006-07-28 23:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi dear ur bi
2006-07-28 23:29:43 · answer #11 · answered by priya_singh282002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋