2006-07-28 22:45:59 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on if you cut his penis off with childproof scissors. They don't hang around long (pardon the pun) after that kind of amputation.Well, of course it's HIS fault!! If he hadn't been such a controlling masochistic insecure excuse for a man, then you wouldn't have felt compelled to disfigure him. He just can't see he brought it on himself..ahh, such is life.
2006-07-28 22:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by deltadawn601 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't consider the persons nature before they answer this question. So, with that in mind, you have to ask yourself several questions...
Have they done this before?
Do they have a violent nature?
Was it an accident?
Was I doing something to wind them up?
Do I love them?
If they have done it before then it is likely they will do it again and that is not good for you and your happiness. But if they haven't you will have to this are they capable of doing this again, which leads me to the next question. Do they have a violent nature? If they do then that also means it might not be best for you, espesially if they are in denial and blame you.
If it was an accident and the series of events that it took place in seemed to be your fault then it may just be a case of it being an accient. BUT do you know if they did do it purposly and blame you because they cant face the fact that they did it?
In a case of winding them up I mean if you said something about a VERY sensitive subject and it caused them to hit you then that may have been your fault in the way that you didn't think they would react like that. But that subject would have to be one that they were VERY VERY sensitive about.
Do you love them? If you love them then you should think...
Do I love him/her to stay with them?
Do I love him/her to not stay with them and protect them from being even more destructive? (if applies)
Do I love him/her enough to leave and keep their memory as it was?
Or Do they love me?
Ask yourself these questions but think if they loved me would they hurt me so.
You could talk to them about it but make sure you will be safe whilst doing it, lay low and your parents house or a friends while they cool down if necessary. Just be safe and do what YOU feel is right and don't give in to pressure.
2006-07-28 23:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - you should leave!! Some of these bullies try to pull the wool over your eyes with apologies and promises of it never happening again but your other half doesn't even seem to have any remorse and has gone the further mile in blaming you.
You don't deserve this and I would advise you to get out while you can for your own safety.
2006-07-28 22:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for hitting you. What would you do if someone hit you in the street? They'd be prosecuted! e safe! This could happen again and again and could be worse next time. If he's blaming you, then he isn't even sorry. Pack your things and leave as soon as you can. This man does not deserve your sympathy or consideration. Good luck!
2006-07-29 22:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never stay in an abusive relationship. Obviously he has a problem that will not end. Once an abuser, always an abuser (until he or she gets help). The blaming part is their way to constitute the reason for their abuse. So.. if I were you.. instead of writing Yahoo answers.. I would be packing my stuff up and saying to them.... goodbye. Good Luck!!
2006-07-28 23:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your other half hits you, thats BAD but yet there's still a chance of working it out.
If your other half hits you then blames it on you that's worse than bad it's straight up evil (especially if you believe it) and you may need to just get out.
2006-07-29 02:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by antfaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not stay. To stay is accepting that he was right to hit you and you then turn yourself into a victim. DO NOT be a victim. Move out, go to family or friends where he cannot find you and take some time to think. Then move on to a guy that respects you.
2006-07-28 23:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure stay if you want a life of watching your back, waiting for the next hit. Once they have done it, it is easy to do it again. If you are really torn, go to counseling. No one deserves to be abused. It is not your fault. Run, there is a better life out there.
2006-07-28 22:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by lovesaragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay, he'll only do it again.
He only blames you because he's trying to justify his actions.
Your other half is a jerk and won't change without serious professional help and lots of it.
I have to agree with the others here.
RUN WHILE YOU CAN!
2006-07-28 23:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you like this if you let he/she get away with hitting you now then make up then he/she will do it again because that is a cycke that is hard to be broken. Be very cautious because you never know what he/she will do next. and if you got kids you don't want them thinking that this is the right thing to go on for life.
2006-07-28 23:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by ms.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋