i really don't know what had happened ,i m in love with an old man ,what should i do ?

Question

This is the first time i m in love ,i love him very much ,and he loves me very much also ,i don't ever want to think that what it will be tomorrow ,but i really don't know how to handle this problem . Actually ,i just want to do nothing and just let it happen ,i don't believe we will really be together .These are not important ,what i fear is that does the age matters a lot when we love ?

i don't know about his family ,from his words ,he has problems with his wife ,they live apart ,but what i know is they love each other still ,just not that kind as you all can imagine ,i don't want to hurt all of them and my family also ,so it is really a problem for me ,i m 20 this year ,and what the rest of my life will be ?if i really do ?

Answer 1

AGE AINT NOTHING BUT A NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

u didn't specify how old are u both ..and if he's married with children or not .
but from my experience ,, we always look to the big man as a bunch of experience that will protect u from anything wrong that u could face in your life ..maybe u were always missing what does the father word mean ..
but i see that those feelings are always wrong ,, he's missing his old days when he can loves , run and having fun with no responsibilities ..and u are searching for safety ..
about marry an old man , it's really very unhealthy ,, and won't ever satisfy your sexual and social needs ,,,
and even if he did that will be for a very short time ..
and if he was married with children ,,
through my experience i am telling u whatever u 'll do to him ,, u'll always come in a 3rd category after his children and his children's mother ..
plz take you time ,, ask more people ,, think wise ,
and final advice life is too short don't ruin it ..

Answer 3

Age doesn't matter when it comes to love, but how sure you are if this old man is still single or has still no family of his own? Age is not the question but the thing is, you have to make sure if he has no obligation and nobody would get hurt if you guys want to pursue your relationship.

Answer 4

Don't think if it as a problem, age is a matter of time and space. Swim in the ocean of love and enjoy every moment while it lasts, and let things fall in place, don't think too much let your heart lead you.

Answer 5

i am an old fart too. age does matter and i know it but i am willing to feel the pain of a young girl leaving me if i could only have her love for a while. don't worry about age for now. you will eventually leave him for a younger guy but while you love him then you can have the pleasure of knowing he loves you a lot more.

Answer 6

If he's single, then theres no problem. how old is he any way? If you have an age gap of 15-20 years, that's something else. you should be prepared of the consequence, specifically criticism. eehh but what the heck! do what you think will make you happy.

Answer 7

No, love is not based on age it is based on your feelings. If you love him and he loves you then just let it flow and see where it takes you, don't worry about tomorrow because you will be taking away its sunshine and end up with grey skies.

Answer 8

if u realy love him and he loves u
why not u marry him age is not a reason for choosing persons he may be elder but better than any young guy and may take care of u
marry him

Answer 9

Age does not matter if it's true love.

Answer 10

If its first time,it should work very well.You will have more to take than to give bu t depends how u handle it.Age should not have any bar.

Answer 11

when you're in love nothing matters but you and the one you love :) i dont believe you cant be together if you're both in love unless there are other 'parties' involved..but if the road's clear there's no stopping :)