sex with boyfriend, being sluts, have a sex when graduate from highschool, why they do it ?
2006-07-28 21:42:27 · 18 answers · asked by andaru_123 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
As a dedicated Moslim, a boy and girl shouldn't have sex before marriage. It's prohibited.
Nowadays, we see western societies are handling this matter lightly. It's normal to have a boy or a girlfriend, and have sex even in early age. The only thing the parents fear when their daughter becomes pregnant or catches a disease.
We see that having sex outside the marriage is called adultery, and it's prohibited in both christianity and judaism.
When the Almighty God created man and woman with many needs to fulfill, He gave him/her the right option and warned him/her from choosing the wrong one. You can eat and drink whatever u want to, but u musn't eat or drink what will hurt ur body. You can have sex under the lawful marriage, but u can't commit an adultery. That's why; He - the Almighty- put severe punishment for those who breach His ordrers, AIDS and other diseases are part of His punishment.
But when we think of it logically, we find that if someone gave u two pieces of candy, one is beautifully wrapped and has ur name inscribed with gold on it, it's for u , no one has tasted it before. The other candy is unfolded; was tasted and bitten by several guys before u, it might be contaminated by others'hands and mouths. Which one would u prefer to take and enjoy eating?
It's ur decision to make and ur life to mend or ruin.
2006-07-28 22:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by noon 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Why would we wait? Not all of us are christians so waiting until marriage isn't so important Although I do think waiting for a good relationship is a nice idea but I don't really lose any respect for someone that likes to "sleep around" as long as they use proytection they can do what they want. Not that I can talk becausesome people probably thought I used to sleep around especially people like you.
But anyway, the answer to your question is that marriage is just not such a big deal to some people and most of those people don't wait. For the people where marriage is a big deal (usually religous) then they can wait. Either way is good so long as its not being pushed on me.
2006-07-29 07:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does having sex with your boyfriend translate to being a slut? There's a big difference between having sex with one person who you are involved with, and sleeping around with guys for the hell of it. Just because someone's not saving it for marriage doesn't mean that they're sluts. That may be your personal opinion, but you have no authority to apply that label to anyone.
2006-07-29 05:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex doesn't make someone a worse than someone who doesn't have sex
marriage is a legal/religious creation, and is not that necessary for anything
why would anyone pass up having safe sex as a way to further a connection/relationship based on mutual respect/attraction/admiration/curiosity that they have with another person for the sole reason of having a hymen/virginity when they sign a piece of paper and get married?
2006-07-29 06:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by dstoneamaphone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons vary.....Some are insecure and think that they need to sleep with a guy in order to keep their interest....Some truly believe that they are in love and are ready for this supposed next step.....Some are pressured by peers or the guy to "do what every one else is doing." Sadly it's often only later on in life that they realize that what they gave away early on (their virginity) they really wish they had back.
2006-07-29 04:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweet/jennie/leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex with their boy friend- innocently or just for pleasure.
sex with a graduate - those girls who have a materialistic mind & no self-
respect.
Being sluts- they think they can get anything out of sex.
2006-07-29 04:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by POORVI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls sleep with a lot of men for the attention. They don't love themselves. It makes them feel like someone cares about them! Or they do it because everyone else is and they feel pressured.
2006-07-29 05:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't make them sluts. that is a rude thing to say. we all live different lives. there is no right or wrong way. just live and love.
2006-07-29 04:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by earbyter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They lack self-respect.
2006-07-29 04:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by DizzyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popularity with stupid boys that will dump them in a minute, and throw their heart away.
2006-07-29 04:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋