My husband (separated) is with a girl I considered to be a friend. She's 10 years younger than him. I want to make her suffer without getting arrested, or messing up my karma. Any suggestions?
2006-07-28 21:33:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do evil for evil Just show her that you are not worry about him are her. she just want you to feel hurt and feel upset just do what you been of doing to get your mind off of them
2006-07-28 21:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste any time on revenge; use your energy on doing good things in life and not let this drag you down!
Make an effort to give yourself what neither your husband or you "friend" has given you; Respect!
Sit down and plan how you can make a beneficial situation for yourself by having good activities and tasks, positive people around you; (maybe make new friends?), do things that you enjoy, treat yourself nicely!! And walk through the hurts with someone professional like a counselor.
And for your husband and this girl; she's not worth more of your time. And if there's anything to him, he will probably get fed up with her after a while, because even if he's attracted to her; who really likes someone who goes to bed with their friends husband?? Best Wishes:-)
2006-07-28 21:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by ayla_sim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sucks. The girl was never your friend and your husband is an a$$. If karma works it won't work out anyways, so Let Go and Let God. I know your mind tells you to put a hurtin on her but.... I was told as a child, keep your man and your friends separate. I didn't know if this was paranoid talk or not. I guess it's true.
2006-07-28 21:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This came from an old friend, and I don't know if it can be done, or should be done today, but she kept up a regular relationship with him, in that she invited him over for dinner once a week with her and the kids. She put saltpeter in his food, which prevented him from getting it up for a week. After a while when he began wondering about what was happening, she told him that he likely had a guilty conscience over leaving the family. They got counseling, got back together, until he died some 15 years later in a job accident.
I might mention that in some states, like Missouri, you can sue her for financial damages for breaking up your marriage.
2006-07-28 21:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is done is done. If they like each other, so be it. You must try not to be jealous and go on with your life. Don't spend another minute on them. Concentrate on YOU. Reorganize and get your life back into high gear. Kicking her in the butt will resolve NOTHING! Look toward the future and what you can accomplish for yourself. You may meet someone very nice and the devil with him and her.
2006-07-28 21:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by wunderkind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are separated so why worry about it. ok but i tell ya what i would do......... the only way you are going to piss her off in a good way is to make ur husband come back to you and dump her! that will put her panties in a bind! then when he comes back.. or even get him to come over and sleep with him and take pictures or hide a camera and show it to her..lol
2006-07-29 00:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey let her keep him he's a lying jerk that has no respect for a woman's love and efforts to make him a good life...She'll be dumping him soon enough and he'll come whining to you that it was all a big mistake ...do yourself a giant favor and turn his ragged as* away...you don't need or deserve that crap from a cheater and deceiver..........
2006-07-28 22:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't botherr to go into the Pig pen. You will only get mud on yourself and nice clothes.
You bothe chose to separate, he has gone his own way, go your own! Don't even dirty yourself by looking back!
Why do you now care about who he is with? Neither of you are required to please the other any more!
Or do you care that he is giving her what you are no longer getting
under the sheets?
2006-07-28 22:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love seeing 2 girls fight. How about you 2 come over to my place and do some Hot Oil wrestling? Winner gets to be my slave.
2006-07-28 21:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything; life will make her suffer. Karma will make sure she gets hers.
2006-07-29 07:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a extraordinarily stupid way for somebody to act in college if she likes you- so I wager she merely had her ft on your chair and her foot slipped two times. yet while she does it returned on a daily basis that's quite helpful to invite her no count if that's an illustration that she likes you. good success.
2016-11-03 06:07:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋