I asked him to marry me. It was so beautiful. I had the apartment decorated, everything took hours to do, and I handmade a bunch of stuff. It was romantic. Everything was perfect, I even got a yes. but not 10 minutes later he asked, "Do you want to go to my Dads party?" Lately, he has been treating me pretty crappy. His sister even talked to me about his exes, when she never did before. I dont know what is up, and I dont know what I´m getting myself into anymore. Help!
2006-07-28 21:22:02 · 11 answers · asked by dancin_queenie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well let answer that for you just get him on his off day and you on your off day and the both of you talk about what's going on and how each other feel about this issue that you all have going on and make sure you tell him how you feel deep down inside
2006-07-28 21:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 25⤊ 4⤋
If you love her and want to marry her be completely open about your feelings. Tell her exactly what you told us. My ex told me he wanted me to wear more make up cause he thought I looked pretty with mascara on. But of course stated I looked pretty either way. But I loved him and wanted to make him happy so I threw some mascara and blush on every morning. Took 1 extra min out of my day to give him a smile and tell me how pretty I looked. I did not take offense to it at all. So before any rash decisions just bring it up to her in the nicest way possible and I'm sure you will get a reaction that you aren't quite expecting (positive I mean). Good luck and don't give up yet
2016-03-27 05:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's treating you crappy now, I think it will get worse once u are married.
I believe a person should always trust their "gut feelings" about things so if you are having regrets now, get out of it . It may seem hard to do now but it will be easier than spending the rest of your life with someone who you aren't sure of and treats you crappy.
You have to take care of yourself right now! Good Luck. :)
2006-07-28 21:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning......Big Red Flags ahead.
Figure it out now before you get married.
You can stop the engagment now too becasue you aren't sure.
Be sure before you marry. Getting divorced is nasty and expensive.
Don't say your "i do's" until you know
2006-07-28 21:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman:
Follow your heart
Listen to your gut
Act on your instinct and 6th sense
2006-07-28 22:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont want to get married until 2010
2006-07-28 21:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just trippin because you asked him, anyways nothing is set in stone
2006-07-28 21:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and have a serious talk.
2006-07-28 21:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's still easy to get out and rethink your question to him, tell him how you feel, and find out if he feels the same and what is he expecting to get out of this marriage and life with you.
2006-07-28 21:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax you don't have to marry him.....If you are unsure then maybe you should listen to yourself.
2006-07-28 21:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋