I just found out I am 7 weeks pregnant and the father is not in my life. I am 27 years old and now I have to face being a single Mom all on my own. I have never ben sooooooooo scared in my life. How am I going to cope????
2006-07-28 21:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
DONT WORY YOUR NOT ALONE. IM 24 YRS OLD AND 28 WEEKS PREGNANT AND THE GUY JUST LEFT ME LIKE THAT.. I NEVER FELT SO ALONE AND DEPRESS IN MY LIFE. FIRST ACCEPT WHAT HAPPEN THEN TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS WHO ARE WILLING TO LISTEN. YOUR FAMILY WILL GIVE YOU EMOTIONAL SUPPORT BUT YOU NEED A CUSHION, A FRIEND WHO WILL LISTEN ALL THE NEGATIVES YOU CAN SAY ABOUT THE GUY AND WHY DID THIS CRAZY THING HAPPENED TO YOU EVEN YOU DONT DESERVE THIS.. NOW ALL YOU NEED IS FRIENDS, FRIENDS AND FRIENDS.. EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE DONT WORRY.. WHEN THE BABY WILL START TO KICK AND IF YOU HEAR THE HEARTBEAT, IT WILL HIT YOU THAT YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG FOR THE BABY COZ THE BABY IS INSIDE YOU FIGHTING FOR HIS LIFE AND STILL DEPENDENT ON YOU.. BE STRONG, THE HELL CRY.. NOT TOO MUCH COZ THEY SAID THE BABY CAN HAVE A HEART PROBLEMS SOMEDAY.. YOUR 27 AND I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET THIS THROUGH.. MOST WOMAN DO.. JUST BE STRONG AND THAT JERK ITS GOOD HIS GONE FOR GOOD YOU DONT DESERVE HIM ANYWAY... I WILL PRAY FOR YOU! BE STRONG OK?!! FOR THE BABY..
2006-07-28 22:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 2⤋
I take time without work for myself so as that i will breathe somewhat. Being a single mom could nicely be so stressful with each and all the rigidity. She's little, so she would be able to no longer understand this as much as though she have been 3 or 4, so be grateful. There could be companies available like relatives source centers who can help or grant loose counseling. The Sierra Vista youngster's midsection is a great company too in the event that they have it the place you reside. in basic terms ascertain you're looking after your self so as which you would be able to nicely be a hundred% to safeguard your infant. you will get with the aid of this. you need to be pleased with your self which you had the braveness to stroll removed from a foul undertaking. sturdy success.
2016-10-08 11:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine whose sister is now a single mom of a four month old was telling me today that her sister is doing well, all things considered. There are really a LOT of resources for single moms out there. Get in touch with your Planned Parenthood clinic ASAP and theyll calm you down and get you the resources and information you need most.
The fact that you're worrying shows you've got those mom skills already! You'll be okay. Hang in there. Your baby (and later, child, teenager, friend) will bring joy into your life that you've never known before. It will be worth it, even if you might go through some rough times.
2006-07-28 21:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by ear help! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This what some stupid people on here don't get, it doesn't matter what age you are you can be in the same situation like a teenage mother. You will need all the help you can get, although me as a teenage parent did not get all the help I wanted (food stamps, childcare, and never filed for child support). It won't be easy I just hope you got your parents and family around because these are the people that can help far as babysitting while you go out and get a job to support your child. Please don't look forward for any financial help from your people. It will come back and haunt you. JUST BABYSITTING.
2006-07-29 00:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry there is millons of single moms and dads in this world and u can do it to yes it will be hard but life is always hard sometimes take it one day at a time and u can get threw this i am sure u wont be single forever one day u will find the RIGHT guy dont stress ur pregnant enjoy it it suppose to be the happest time in ur life.....life goes on and u got to make best with that u have so gl and takecare
2006-07-28 21:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ missy ♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're going to need some kind of a support network; ask friends and family if they're willing to help you out with babysitting, shopping, etc.
I say buy as much as you can for the baby (and for yourself from now on) used, like from craigslist.com.
Find a local food bank that can give you some food on a weekly basis: http://www.secondharvest.org/
Sign up for WIC: http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-28 21:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do it everyday. I have been doing it for 6 years. I hate to be mean, but why did you get pregnant by someone who is not going to be in the child's life already?
It's hard to be a single mom. Good luck!
2006-07-28 21:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
pray pray pray ...and try to be surrounded by supportive ppl and dont use that baby as a tool to punish the fatjer try to keep a good relationship with him
2006-07-28 22:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by ladypoet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BE STRONG AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!
2006-07-28 21:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋