I am separated from my spouse, having issues. Any suggestions?
2006-07-28 21:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF YOU REALLY LOVED THE GUY THEN IT WON'T BE EASY TO FORGET HIM. IT MAY TAKE MANY MONTHS OR OVER A YEAR. THE WAY TO FIGHT THE ANXIETY IS NOT TO BE ALONE. TALKING TO KNOWLEDGEABLE PEOPLE ALWAYS HELPS. GO to PLACES EVEN IF YOU AREN'T IN THE MOOD. FORCE YOURSELF. DON'T SIT HOME AND SULK. It is very destructive. Try to find someone else that you can relate to. This is a big help. You don't have to become romantically involved if you don't want to but you can at least meet and talk. Go to social events that interest you.
Plenty of single people there. The major concern: do not feel sorry for yourself and try to erase him from your mind ASAP.
2006-07-28 21:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by wunderkind 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I'm going through the exact same thing. My fiance left and I was supposed to go with him. But he left w/o saying goodbye and won't call me. We were together every single day, in and out for a year. It feels like you're missing your other half. Sorta like a twin. But the way that I'm coping is remembering what an azzhole he is for doing it. It helps me get bye. So just remember, it could be a lot worse. And you're lucky. Well I hope everything works out in your favor, as well as mine. Wish I could be more of a help to you. Then again, sometimes you just gotta cry. Good Luck.
2006-07-28 21:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by TootsiePop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Trying living life for yourself now on your own terms & conditions. Go to a gym, get yourself pampered in a beauty parlour, start MEDITATION,divert your attention completly from your divorce. Keeping yourself busy will help you a lot. Make new friends as well.
And of course, you have your children. Give them the best you can.
Talking to a close friend will help you relieve yourself of your mental & emotional stress.
2006-07-28 21:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through that myself. I had to just keep boosting up my bravery. Get yourself busy, Go to church. Hang out with friends.
Reach out to people who have been through the same thing.
2006-07-28 21:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involve in healthy activities, sorround youre self with good , positive people, avoid topic, keep your time occupied
2006-07-28 21:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by simmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the bars. Have a lot of sex. go wild. look me up.
2006-07-29 11:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DRINK OR DO DRUGS. GO TO CHURCH, MEET NEW PEOPLE. GOOD LUCK BABE.
2006-07-28 22:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋