A friend asks me to sleep over at her place and i cannot take her up on that offer because i know it will cause problems between me and my guy. How do I turn her down?
2006-07-28 20:54:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell Her You Will Be Busy, Or Just Say Nicely Im Sorry But I Can't, Or You Can Lie And Make a Reason Up But What i Think Is You Shouldnt Lie Cause You Will Get Caught And End up With Out a Friend At All.... You Can Also Tell Her About Ur Problems And If shes A real Friend She Should Understand ( Im Sure She Will )
2006-07-28 20:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 19⤊ 4⤋
Tell her, that it will prolly cause problems between you and your guy. If she is your friend she will understand. Maybe go out of your way to spend a little time with her, but tell her you can't stay overnight.
2006-07-28 20:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if "your guy" is so controlling and won't like it if you see your friend, why are you going out with him?
Of course, it might be that you had plans with him before her. If that's the case, explain it to her and politely turn her down.
2006-07-28 21:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by WinterRhya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 11:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why will it cause problems with your guy? - that sounds like your real problem.
You should stay with your friend if you want to.
2006-07-28 20:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have plans with your guy. Or that you do not feel comfortable sleeping away from home. Or you know, Just say no.
2006-07-28 20:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by cerwenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she doing thing like that she ain't yah friend. Now to the subject just say no i don't think we that close tell her what she does to hurt you if she doesn't change then she really ain't yah friend. Drop her.
2006-07-28 20:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Aye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? Why would this not be OK with your guy? Sounds like he has the problem, and you will have bigger ones if you let him control you.
2006-07-28 20:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell a little white lie its ok for a good reason.
2006-07-28 20:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Julia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
no means no.
unless you want to.
and your guy is posessive,
and tells you when to go to the bathroom.
why would it bother him for you to have a girls
night out and camp over at her house.
are you married to this guy?
if you want to do something that means a lot to you
and he says no...............
end the relationship now before you marry him!
2006-07-28 21:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋