I want this guy who go's to my school to love me. He's in the same grade as me (Grade 8) and we're both 13. He is so hot and I'm not really pretty. Im the kind of girl that sticks to the same ponytail everyday, I need a change but don't have time. He is in my HPE, Sose and Science classes. I don't really talk to him at all or anything we just know each others names, that's about it. I have lots of pimples and not really any friends but I don't really want anybody at my school (exept him and me) to know I love him. He's really popular and never alone.
And a lot of other girls love him too. Much prettier ones than me have asked him out but he said no. Any ideas or advise?
2006-07-28 20:46:47 · 12 answers · asked by Sparkling star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES! First of all you have to understand that LOVE is a strong word and you are probably just infatuated with him(meaning you have a crush) Second of all you need to look at your competition and realize that most 8th graders are going to be really shallow and that small things like being pretty or not will affect them. Here's what i'd do: go to a local grocery store that cells organic food and buy Burts Bees blemish serum, burts bees lettuce toner and face wash that will help clear up your skin in like a week i swear. Then go to a local barber and get your hair layered face framed. Also purchase a straightener and start straightening your hair every other day instead of wearing it up all the time. Be sure to also purchase some cherry scented lip gloss, mascara and Love Spell by Victoria Secrets perfume.(dont worry your not really putting a spell on him) it'll linger in the air and he will wonder who smells really good. ok so we got your face clear, a natural look for you make up and now you smell good and have great hair to go with that... Start out by making small conversation and just be yourself! Also, to help relieve some stress you should probably make a habit of jogging 3-4 times a week or try yoga! GOOD LUCK
2006-07-28 21:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Candice H 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A Little difficult question
2 ways are there
1. Forget him which i dont think that u wanna do thats why you have posted ur question
2. You need a lot to do.
You dont have to read further as in brief its just "SELF BELIEF"
See this is not important that what you feel for him is to be told. we are not here to take No as an answer.
what i can suggest is that as he is popular gettin a info about him is not a problem.
If he likes a girl to be smart then you have a answer-Be the smartest *** in your school- how to do it something you hv to find out on your own
find out what he likes and dislikes. Which girls does he talks to and what kind of girls are they. How can you be better then them.Every body has some strength and weakness. Smart person is that who uses its competitor weakness as its strength.
You may be the ugliest person on this planet but there must be something which is better than everybody else, i m sure about it.
Make that as a weapon and I know for sure
Success will be on your feet.
You cant make a person to love you but can definately leave a mark.
2006-07-28 21:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl don't worry bout does gurls look i'm 13 also in 8th grade so who to give you a better answer than someone who has i mean is in the same situation. Okay first don't ask him anything or talk to him you wait for him to talk to you. Now if he doesn't soon make him want to you know like empress him. But warning don't give up body for him. Okay now if i mean when he talks to you you don't act suprised. What you do is you just say u huh act like you are looking at someone else. like push his arm out the way and walk away that makes him say oh she's hard to get to. Okay now next step when he comes to you to talk to you again then you start talking. Okay or you can build yah rep but sometimes that don't work. Trust me. If i don't work then i will give you another way cause some guy are harder to get.
2006-07-28 20:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Aye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 13 why do you want to find love? And don't change yourself.. maybe if you want a confidence boost buy some face wash and make your hair tidy and experiment with hairstyles... but as for making him "fall in love with you".. why don't you just approach him and see what he's like in person. Maybe you should see what he's really like, as people can suprise you, you may think you really like him but imagine if he has a really bad personality.
Don't just focus on his looks, you'll get the funnest times and the best out of someone who may not neccissarily be the best looking person, but someone who's personality you love.
As for wanting to get close to him.. just let him see the real side of you, don't be afraid to speak up and to initiate conversation with people. Be confident about who you are, and what you do, and i'm sure you'll find plenty of people will want to know you.
2006-07-28 20:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by _tombraider_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could choose love because of the fact riches are relaxing for as long as that's relaxing to be wealthy and then that's merely ability for finding out to purchase a diverision to distract from the real thoughts of melancholy, loneliness, bitterness, just to call some..... Love is the commencing place of each and everything it quite is sweet and organic. Love is what anybody needs Love is what anybody desires Love is what God has for each individual God is Love
2016-11-03 06:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13, you have so much time ahead of you for this stuf. I understand your feelings, but you can't make anyone like or love you. Just be cool, and as you grow older things will happen for you. And, keep your face clean. A good diet helps.
2006-07-28 20:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do nice things for the guy he will usually like you at that age.
Buy him a chocolate bar and tell him you would like to be friends and let things develop from there. There are many frogs out there. If this one gets away then that's okay.
2006-07-28 20:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whocares what you look like well thats easier said then done yeah hes gonna go for looks but thats why you just keep improving them...wear make up be totally fake for like two days and talk to him those days and then the next few days still tlak to him but be your self and he wont even notice...
2006-07-28 20:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back to your studies. You are too young to talk about love.
2006-07-28 20:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry give all you have when ever he want then he will start love to you great idea right.
2006-07-28 21:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by mohd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋