I have been divorced for 1 1/2 months, and I've known my new guy for 3 months. I've only been going out with him since after my divorce, but the relationship has moved really fast and I am really attached to him. We talk all the time and I really trust him and we have tons of similarities and our religious stance is the same. How soon is it acceptable to marry him?
2006-07-28 20:35:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give it a year from now
2006-07-28 20:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 years
2006-07-28 21:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by daveinsurprise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is actually no the matter. Matter is how did you got you wrong chose for your first marriage? Will you make the same mistake again? Even you love him does not mean that you have to trust him 100%, always give yourself a back door to move out. By now you should now that marry is not a bed of roses. You seems to me you are being spell by love potion. Make use of your woman's intuition for the judgment.
2006-07-28 20:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW, lol, Jus Playing... No legal rules in the rules book. Just ask yourself these questions to guide you to an answer. Am I ready for commitment? Have I healed from my past marriage? Do I really trust my partner? You met your guy for only 3 months, relax, get to know him better, whats the rush to get married? Only difference from marriage and now is that you'll carry his last name and no commitments. If you want your new marriage to last, you should be positive that you are compatible with your boyfriend. ....
2006-07-28 20:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz Know It All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have kids don't get married again till they are out of the house you will just be hurting them. If its just you give yourself a year to work through the emotions of your divorce. If you get married again to soon you would have a higher chance of getting divorced again. You don't want this to be a rebound thing. Now if he is worth it and he thinks your worth it waiting is the best......
2006-07-28 20:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Linda G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there are any answer for this.
I would give it at least six months.
Make sure you both know how each other is under stress, when tired , sick, frustrated.
discuss everthing that could happen from finances, to check books, how to punish children, famly expectations.
Cover everything.
Best wishes
2006-07-28 20:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i'll take a break first..let your new relationship be as it is for now..dont jump in right away..take time..take things slow...enjoy his company and see where does it leads you both..otherwise you might ruin whatever you may have in the future and might backfire on you.. for now, just enjoy and fun and go with the flow...if you're sure that you;re ready to go to the next step then go ahead :)
2006-07-28 20:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His grownup infants are "siding with mom" who's residing together with her boyfriend? i'm guessing that has no longer something to do with you lots as how he behaved in his marriage? reason otherwise this is no longer clever in any respect. sounds like his subject concerns together with his young infants are on him, no longer you., So,,,, what's incorrect with the courthouse steps? Marriage isn't with regard to the marriage. this is with regard to the marriage. Do what you elect.
2016-11-03 06:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why make the same mistake twice. if you guys can make it 10 or 20 years, why would it matter how soon you tied the knot?
2006-07-28 20:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time.... happiness is not in the title of marriage but in the relationship. Rush and it could ruin it
2006-07-28 20:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by Danimal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks about your relationship with him. if you feel you are ready for that then do what you feel is right. but be careful not everything is as it seems.
2006-07-28 20:39:02 · answer #11 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋