what shud u do if u found out this guy u loved was talking to ur best friend who he knew was back stabbing u??

Question

She stole 2 of my bestfriends by telling stories about me n the whole time I was telling him about how she hurt me, he was talking n emailing her. Please HELP! n if u can give me ideas on how to take revenge i wud appreciate it

Answer 1

revenge won't help. i think you should kill them both...with kindness. don't trust the girl n e more, tell her no hard feelings guys come and go but you don't need people tryna bring u down. tell him it was nice and u hope you all can still be friends. and if u have to cry about it don't let them see, maybe get a REAL friend to lean on

Answer 2

Revenge never solves anything, and often makes you want to continue until you get hurt worse. It can backfire too. Okay, since you asked what I would do, this is it. I would talk to this guy and tell him how I felt. Since there's nothing you can do to control what he does, you'll have to decide if you want to continue being friends with this guy, who's maintaining a relationship with someone who's on your "short list". I would dump him. Especially after you tell him what's going on and he still wants to be friends with her. I'm not trying to make this seem like a small problem, but it sounds like a junior high problem. Why do I say that? Because that happens a lot in junior high. It shows a lack of maturity, with hate & anger controling everyone. And if this girl COULD steal two of your best friends, they weren't your best friends. I know this from my vast years of experience in this area. I actually have a lady who hates me right now, and is trying to muscle me out of my friends' lives. But my friends won't do it, which makes this lady really mad. She'll just have to get over it 'cause my friends love me. But, my friends won't take sides either, because they are mature enough to know that personalities clash, and it's possible to be friends with people who can't stand each other. You just have to not talk about the offending person in THAT persons' presence. So, if your best friends CAN be stolen, they're really pathetic for believing all the trash being said about you. As for that "boy", fagettaboutim. Treat him like yesterday's news. Guys like that are a dime a dozen. Guys at this age really should be held at arms length, sorta like a smelly towel. They don't really mature until they're about 25 (though there are some exceptions). Just look around you, at all your friends. There's not a week that goes by that someone isn't breaking up with someone else, right? It's because everyone is too immature to maintain a long-term relationship. So, my advice would be just have fun, and leave the "going steady" stuff for when you've graduated high school. By then, you'll know what you're looking for, in a man (not a boy). Be friends with lots of people. If a "boy" wants to go out with you, tell him that all you want is just to be friends and nothing more. It takes all the pressure off of the relationship, allowing you both a relaxing time. And for heaven's sake, wait until you're married before having sex. You'll be SO glad you did. And so will your future husband. <*)))><

Answer 3

Killing them with kindness never works it just kills you. Just dont talk to either of them anymore.Its all carma what goes around comes around. Now if this is your guys first offense tell him how you feel. If he really cares about you he will stop talking to her.Never haave a friend or boyfriend you can't trust. If he doesn't stop leave him but always rmember people can change just not overnight. So if they come crawling bck tell them you can't trust them anymore and trust is earned not givin.

My fiance cheated on me with this girl he had known from his bar hoppin days hangin with my brother. About a year and a 1/2 after we got together. It started out as just running into her while she was moving and he ened up helping her out said he felt sorry for her big sob story three kids single parent blah blah blah. I started suspecting things when he kept coming home later and later yelling at me for stupid stuff all the time she kept calling things like that then then one night i went out with my friends and the next day she sent him a text while i had is phone saying he left my sons sippy cup over there i went postal I left and stayed the night at my grandmas he called wanted me to come home it was the night before easter and i told him if we could get counseling he could pick us up for church the next day.When we got home i found text messages where they were saying they wished they could be together.He left and moved in with her the next day right after we had found out i was pregnant all of the sudden i was the sob story.We fought back and forth through out my pregnancy and now we are back together after alot of work on both our parts. We have a beautiful 8 mos. old daughter and things have never been better.He still doesnt have my full trust and he never will but he gets a little back day by day.

So if you are really in love with this guy and he is worth the effort take it one day at a time. Eventualy if you both work hard at you'll have back what you had

Answer 4

What a jerk ***. Youre best revenge is too let them have each other. What goes around comes around don't look for revenge, life will look for revenge by itself, for you. Learn a lesson: Best friend? I dont think so. Whatever you do dont take him back when he comes begging you for forgiveness. Your best friend? Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
Good tidings young girl.

Answer 5

Girls are so bitchy! I would catch her out.... try find out where this guy will be and her at the same time... then confront her, you know you have done nothing wrong.... But be nice.... dont swear... or bad mouth her.... that is the best defence..... ask her what have you done to her, to treat you this way.... say im so hurt i thought that you were my friend and im so dissapointed.... you'll be in the guys good books and she has no amunition against you!

Answer 6

hunnay,you gata talk to him straight.and if he still talks to her that ***** then dump him.yes,its gana be hurting,and yes youll miss him.but you dont deserve a guy like that.and if you want revenge,go talk to his friends,infront of him.thats revenge.