I'm a 14 year old teen from Australia and I live with my father. I have never brought the topic of thongs up with him, but I have a white mini skirt, and whatever normal undies I wear, are visible. Panty lines are not a prob with the mini though. Should I ask him if I'm allowed a thong, and if so, what should I say? He is not strict. Should I go ahead and buy it? Am I old enough? Please help.
2006-07-28 20:16:22 · 21 answers · asked by Astrid 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By the way, a recent comment from someone was that it's none of his business.. Well I am his daughter and I don't want to buy one to look slutty I want to buy one for practicality and so I can wear my damn skirt..! =) Thanks guys
2006-07-28 21:39:14 · update #1
my hubby and i have my 13 year old cousin living with us...she was scared to ask us about thongs and stuff of that nature..we are by no means strike unless they show disrespect or inmaturaty...anyways....what im trying to say if you dad is open about the subject go ahead and ask him..dont go buy it then show him...she asked us i took her to buy it..he doesn't have to go with you..but your relationship will be better because you involve him in your life..your not cutting him off in some areas more then others..if you ever feel like asking a female question feel free to write be at my yahoo messenger its francescavictoria18 take care
2006-07-28 20:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by francescavictoria18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Could Just Buy A Thong And If He Says Anything About It You Could Just Say You Needed It So Nobody Could See Your Underwear,Not To Be Slutty.Or If It Gets Really Bad Tell Him That A Friend Bought It As A Joke Or Something.You Have A 50/50 Chance Of Him Finding Out Though.But hopefully Your Dad Doesn't Look At What's Under Your Skirt And Won't Find Out That You're Wearing It And He Doesn't Know The Skirts See-Through.
2006-07-29 06:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Stajah Ree 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That question is going to be one of your dad's worst fears coming true. Ask him VERY carefully!
The first thing out of his mouth will be something close to "Why do you need to wear a thong????". Your answer will need to be something practical, like you're just trying to avoid panty lines or they're more comfortable than the undies you usually wear. If he gets the impression that you're trying to strut your sexy stuff then you could see his strict side come out like a lion.
Buying it without telling him is kinda risky. He WILL find it eventually, especially if you develop a preference for them and you wind up owning multiple thongs. The backlash could be extremely anti-enjoyable for you.
All possible outcomes:
1. You ask, he says yes. Happy joy for all!
2. You ask, he says no. Oh well. You keep wearing your old undies and your dad keeps his sanity.
3. You buy them secretly and your dad loses it when he finds out. Very anti-fun.
4. You buy them secretly and your dad keeps his cool and lets you explain their practicality. Even so, his trust in you will take a minor dip. Expect his eyes and ears to be more open in the future.
Choose well, young Jedi.
2006-07-29 03:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by ardra71 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Of course you could go out and buy it on your own but I like that you would like to discuss it with your father. Just tell him about the situation on why you need it and he should be understanding and appreciative that you wanted to include him. On the off chance he is not you can try to reason with him or whatnot and see what happens but there should be no problem. Hope this helped. Toodleloo
2006-07-29 03:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by babygemini261 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go ahead and buy it u want u don't have to ask Ur dad if u want one,but if u want 2 ask go ahead i don't think he will say anything the conversation with him will just fell a bit awkward but if u tell him Ur old enough and Ur mates have them 2 he will get u one,if he still says no then sneak out and get one Ur old enough
2006-07-29 14:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by flow_j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are old enough but personally they are not very comfortable but I understand about the panty lines.
2006-07-29 04:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are asking "how to ask.." i guess that means you are still not old enough. When you'll be able to just go out and buy it without thinking of your dad, then you'd be old enough. Don't rush you'll be growing in no time.
Take care.
2006-07-29 08:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well u are old enogh to wear it i mean your father probably wouldnt even care if u asked him he would say to himself" wow my little girl is becoming a woman" or somthing like that so dont be afraid to ask.
2006-07-29 03:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by SON OF A BISCUIT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and go buy yourself one its none of your fathers buisses what type of panties you wear.He wont see them.
2006-07-29 04:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by kit-kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, i cannt see any problems with that. Get one, flaunt it in the middle of ur butts and show it off.... ya believe me thats an asset and u r gonna luv it.. hmmm!
2006-07-29 03:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋