well heres the thing my homgirl might be pregnet and she is 14 years old she dosent know what to do abort it or keep it its becasue the guy now dosent whan to be whith her anymore he tod her he liked someone else but that it was up to her if she had the baby i mean i wish she did have it but then its ruining her life what do u think she should do and what i should do to help her
2006-07-28 20:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by maria_e126 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all you are a really good friend for trying to help her. i think that its totally up to her. i dont belive in abortin a baby so if she doesnt wont it tell her to give it up 4 adop. k
2006-07-29 09:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Becky♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I DO NOT FEEL ABORTING A BABY IS THE ANSWER. THE BABY/FETUS IS TOTALLY INNOCENT IN THIS ALL! GIVE THE BABY A CHANCE TO LIVE. THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF SINGLE YOUNG PARENTS OUT HERE IN THE WORLD TODAY, NOW OF COURSE IT MAY BE HARD, BUT ONCE YOU HAVE SOMEONE DEPENDING ON YOU IT WONT SEEM AS WORSE AS YOU'D THOUGHT IT'D BE. IF HE IS ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ELSE "HOW LONG WILL THAT LAST FOR." THINK ABOUT IT--- THATS A PART OF LIVE, SO DON'T BASE YOUR OWN DECISIONS OFF OF WHAT OTHERS DO, BUT WHAT YOU ARE ABLE TO ACCOMPLISH!
2006-07-28 20:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't say that it's going to ruin her life. A baby is so wonderful. They both need to sit down together and talk with there parents! I don't know if she has said anything to them yet, i am sure she hasn't. They both knew what they we're doing. To be 14 and be pregnant i am sure is a hard thing but she shouldn't be out having sex at that age in the first place.Tell her to talk with both parents his and hers. thats the best thing to do before anything else. You know parents can help out a lot. Please someone needs to let them know. Hope everything works out
2006-07-28 20:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes too young to take care of the baby...get her to sign up for a christian adoption agency, where the baby can be put into a loving home, and like an open adoption
2006-07-28 20:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweete_017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard but if i was in that situation i would unfortunatly have to say i would have an abortion. i know people are against i but if i was 14 and pregnant- I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS it just would ruin her life socially and academically.
2006-07-28 20:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by stef x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something very personal, do not advise her on WHAT to do just be there because she really needs you now
2006-07-28 21:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the baby nd the guy...
2006-07-28 22:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by collisioncourse_8905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her when she is in need
2006-07-28 23:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by african godess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your support ..... on weather she wants to keep it or not.
2006-07-28 20:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by L0Lziny0face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. sucks for her though.
CONDOM.
2006-07-28 22:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋