How Do I Punish My Wife ?

Question

I Love My Wife, She Is Probably The Nicest Sweetest Woman There Is. But Sometimes She Is Bad. I Dont Want To Let Her Get Away With Doing Things That Are Wrong Because If I Were To Ignore It, It Would Seem Like I Thought It Was Okay. So, How Do I Punish My Wife. I Am Not A Wife Beater Or Anything Like That. I Just Want A Strong Suitable Punishment To Show Her I am Serious.

Answer 1

The fact that her husband can't capitalize properly is a form of punishment already.

Answer 2

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How Do I Punish My Wife ?
I Love My Wife, She Is Probably The Nicest Sweetest Woman There Is. But Sometimes She Is Bad. I Dont Want To Let Her Get Away With Doing Things That Are Wrong Because If I Were To Ignore It, It Would Seem Like I Thought It Was Okay. So, How Do I Punish My Wife. I Am Not A Wife Beater Or Anything...

Answer 3

How to handle a women... I feel like breaking out in song.

Anyway, as Master and Lord you should give her a flick even if she doesn't need it just to show her, as you say, that you're serious.

Nothing a women loves more than a good belting. You should ask them, they'll tell you it's true.

But to be serious for a moment (some may think I have been serious all along) I tried all that. I tried it with my first wife and the second and I even tried it on the third. Now I don't know if those three were very intelligent examples of modern, loves a belting, women but they didn't seem to. One had me up on assault but I got out of that one because His Honour understood my situation.

To cut a long story short, what I found in the end worked for me was the good old denial game. Whenever my current spouse wants, even begs, for a good bashing I resist. I know where the real power lies now. If she insists, I move out for a couple of days. If she really wants it, I go away for a month or two. This serves two purposes. Firstly, there's no trouble with the police and, secondly, it brings respect back into our relationship.

In other words stop playing the tyrant, we have enough of those already and leave her alone. That is unless you're talking about something else.

Answer 4

Why do you have to punish her she is your WIFE not your CHILD. Be a man and lay the rules of the home down as the bible says. Jesus is the head of man and man is the head of the wife and home. She is to be obedient to you and not to the extreme of abuse, torture or weirdness. It's hard to know what "bad" means when you say she is being bad. But she is a grown woman and has the rights of an adult. She should be treated as an adult. Sounds like you two have some communication issues and once those are resolved perhaps a better understanding of her role as your wife and Mother (if she is one) and her role in the home (on both your parts) will result in a happier marriage. Hopefully she is not doing anything illegal and that is not an issue for you.

Best wishes!

Answer 5

Exactly what 'Bad' things does your wife do? I sense you are raging inside. Whatever your wife has done you are certainly angry about it. There is no proper punishment for this kind of thing. If you 'punish' her she won't really understand what it's for and she'll hate you for it. You are in a marriage and you should be able to tell her what you're feeling otherwise she'll continue doing what she's doing. Tell her. Talk to her. Make her understand. Your hurt is the worst punishment she could ever have. Trust me.

Answer 6

Punish is very condescending. You should NEVER "punish" your wife as if you are better than her. If you have a problem with something she does, talk to her and explain why you feel the way you do. If she cares about you (since she is your wife) she will try to stop. You are an adult dealing with another adult. Please do not think in terms of punishment - that will not help your wife or the marriage.

Answer 7

(P.S. Do you have a girlfriend and a wife? I looked at your other questions. You seem a bit perverted to me. Any way here is my answer)

DON'T
Figure out how to get yourself to finish growing up. Educate yourself on relationships and marriage and COMMUNICATION. Use books, articles, classes, groups, counselors, talk shows... everything. You don't want to lose "the sweetest woman" . Sometimes she is bad?? I doubt she IS bad. Everyone makes mistakes and does stupid things. Marriage takes understanding-NEVER punishment. That word doesn't belong with marriage! Of course you speak up when something is not right, That is ALL that is needed. Do you think she should punish you when you are "bad?" That is not what a mature and loving relationship is.

"Distrust all in whom the impulse to punish is powerful." Nietzsche

Answer 8

Lay down the rules and if she breaks them punish her. Small infractions get smaller punishments. Maybe she doesn t have dinner ready on time..that would be a small infraction. Punish her by giving her 20 minutes of corner time. For larger infractions use your belt and have her count the lashings. Move up from there to having her clean the floor by licking it. Many good ideas you can come up with on your own I m sure.

Answer 9

You, being married to her is punishment enough. You sound like a real man. Maybe if you let the air out of your blow-up wife she will not do things to make you mad...are you hearing the voices again?

Answer 10

Try talking to her and telling her that you don't appreciate this behavior or that action - you don't punish your spouse - sounds like you may be in danger of becoming all of those things you say you are not. If you care and are serious you talk to her or see a counselor - punishment and revenge are not healthy aspects of a relationship - at all - seriously.

Answer 11

Sorry! you have not stated what kind of mistake your wife had committed, so it is difficult to enforce. How would a husband pubish his wife if he love her, no matter what mistake she made. Forgiving is golden. I would suggest you use a soft approach by tender love. There is no right or wrong , is just a difference way of doing things. No everyone thinks what you have done is right, is just the people let you pass. Try not to be so judgemental to your wife.