will you forgive at least one person who has wronged you?

Question

even if someones wronged you, im sure at least some of these people cant sleep at nite cuz of it. would it kill you to call that person and tell them you want to work it out- explain everyone makes mistakes and you dont want this mistake, no matter how damaging it was, to totally ruin that relationship- life is too short and everyone does make mistakes. no ones perfect. what do you think.. will you at least try?

Answer 1

i will forgive everyone whose wronged me. and any who have wronged me have done it for a reason i'm sure, either insecurity, jealousy, fear, defence. And i understand and accept that and love them for who they are. I was recently mad at a friend of mine for some things she said and done. I had never been so insulted and disrespected, even by people in my far past who had reason to dislike me. But i dod forgive her coz i understand the hard situation she goes through and know that under the crap is still a good person. Sometimes we are punching bags for friends but we cannot hate them for it. Anyone can make an honest mistake. To err is human and all we we can do is tell it to your human heart forgiveness is human too.
Unfortunately when your computer is down and you relly on your friends or the libraries then it restricts your contact enough to make that person think wrongly that i am mad when i'm not.
When that happened i felt hurt and wronged but not mad and not angry-to go from hurt to anger is too easy a step in the wrong direction too many take. That is what i believe. I hope it helps answer your question.

Answer 2

Life is too short to be weasting love like that. I'm so sorry to read you had gone thru alot but you need to remember something. You need to go back to basic. Lov e is perfect. There are no mistake in love. We make the mistakes and then we call them whatever. Sometimes we love more than what we receive. That for my is the scary part. But as long that I'm sure that I had love in this life... I'm happy cause I'm Human. Spent too much time being a machine... I forget how beautiful life is... I don't foret but I do forgive. I am a better person today but I be much better tomorrow. Yes I have the scar of love in my heart. Yes I had hurt some one spacial in my life beacuse I was in blinded by hate. But now I learned the truth about life. The truth about love. As long as you are sure that you did everything for love, notthing is going to be a mistake. GOD BLESS, good luck. Write back if you want... EFIL

Answer 3

The danger of anger is that is eats away the person who harbors the anger, while at the same time the object of your anger is oblivious that they are the cause of the anger.

So, those who say "I forgive, but I never forget", are likely holding a grudge that is a detriment to only them and not the person they are angry at.

You have not really forgiven until you've forgiven without any conditions. The person who benefits most from total forgiveness is the forgiver.

Answer 4

You assume others may be as caring as you are. The attempt would not hurt them, but should it not work out to your satisfaction what position does that leave you in? Kissing up to someone who already took a round out of you is not necessarily productive, don't be a victim twice over. Walk away, get on with your life, forgive but do not forget. Unless you know you were definitely in the wrong, don't go back there. Why should you feel obligated to do so?

Answer 5

Yes I would and have forgiven people who have done wrong things to me. It releases you from feeling angry, it stops hate from growing and it mends freindships and its part of being a mature person. The best thing I found about forgiving someone is you don't have any guilt trips about not forgiving and in the end you know you have gone above and beyond what a lot of people would do to fix a situation that got out of hand. A lot of people don't know how to accept forgivness and that is a whole other unspoken concept.

Answer 6

It really depends on the person and on the situation...for example, my husband cheated on me and it took me forever to forgive him, but i eventually did but i set down a lot of ground rules and let him know that if he ever did it again he would not only be losing me but our daughters as well...but then I had a friend who wasn't really a friend because I always invested more time in the friendship than she did, and when she finally pushed the line I couldn't forgive her...she tries to contact me every once in a while, but I invested 2 years in a friendship with her that she never appreciated...still doesn't and i realized it just wasn't worth it...so like i said...it depends on the situation...i cannot honestly say that i would forgive everyone or that i wouldn't.

Answer 7

Forgiveness is a gift. If you have the heart to forgive those who wrong you not just one but any one of them then you have a teasure Well put "no one is perfect" We accept that WE are not perfect so why not acknowlegde others are not either and act accordingly. Who ever your asking for forgivness from give it time they'll come around and if they don't its there loss sweetie
best wishes

Answer 8

Yes of course I would try to forgive and forget coz we are all entitled to make mistakes that's what makes us human. If I am not able to forgive a person for a mistake they have done especailly if it was unintentionally than I can not live in this world!

Answer 9

There's one person that i can remember who has wronged me and no, I do not even want to forgive, call or work it out with that person. At least not now,but I am hoping that maybe someday I will want to... My heart's too full of scars and wrath right now.

Answer 10

I have not only tried but forgave so many people. I always think that forgiving is utmost Victory which we can achieve upon people who made wrong against us. And in return we get their well wishes about us from then. That means they can be most affectionate with us from that time.