im 15 and...?

Question

im 15 and im wondering how can you get your b/f to open up to you(like tell you how hes really feeling)? serious answers please. guys you can answer to about your g/fs

p.s: my boyfriend is 17 just in case u were wondering

Answer 1

If you want him to open up, here ya go.

First, you can't just say "Tell me what you're feeling!" whenever you feel like it. HE has to feel like it. Wait until there's a quiet moment where it's just the two of you in a private, intimate setting.

Start by talking about something that you have in common; something you both feel strongly about. See where this is going? Don't pick a topic where you take opposite sides and it turns into a debate, or a topic that gets you both worked up and pissed off.

If you manage to get a nice, calm, hushed, and intimate conversation rolling along that you're both interested in then you're almost there. If he looks bored then save it for another time. But assuming that you've established one of those boyfriend/girlfriend moments you can try saying something like "I love knowing how you feel about things like this...I really want to know how you feel about other stuff." If all goes well he'll ask you "What stuff?". You're in.

If your inquiries get him pissed off, don't expect this same tactic to work again. Ever. Tread with caution.

Answer 2

Right now it is very hard for a boy at that age to open up. There minds are not mature enough for all that . Us as women need them to open up , because we need nurturing , unlike them . He will open up to u when he is ready . He will just make u feel like he is telling the truth . Just give it time and if he knows u are right for him he will feel more comfortable telling u how he feels .

Answer 3

when i was 15 and with my ex at the time he never wanted to open up to me it's normal for guys not wanting to open up and talk about there feelings. Just let them know how you feel and maybe they will be comfortable enough to do the same. But no promises

Answer 4

Its hard to get most guys to open up to you, especially younger guys. At the age of 15 or so guys tend to me more closed-lipped and withdrawn than at any other age...I would suggest you plan activities that you know he will enjoy...maybe some paintballing, etc and just spend time with him. In time he'll realize he can be himself around you and he might just open up...

Good luck!

Answer 5

Guys don't even open up to each other. It takes a lot of time and confidence in themselves before they will confide in a close friend. I think it has something to to with the attitude that they have to suck it up and be strong going back to when they were little and told big boys don't cry....

Answer 6

15 year old boys don't open up. And it's been my experience that when a girl finds out what a guys feeling she's sorry she asked.

Answer 7

Think about this... How honselty does he take u???/ does he calll u alot??? do u guys go out????if u answer no 2 2 or more then he obviously dosent take u seriously and need 2 ask him does he take advantage of u... doeshe take u seriously..etc see how that goes

Answer 8

im 16 and my b/f openes up sometimes to me, cuz i knew him since we were 6 yrs old so our families are real tight so we can relate and we both came from broken homes so we sometimes talk about eachothers dads which we dont even kno basically. so i guess maybe find somethin that u mite have in common or sometin thats real deep and talk about it

Answer 9

guys are very stubborn and most of them dont like to talk about there feelings but i am sure if you tell him how you are really feeling maybe he will open up to you

Answer 10

Well, at your age and his, it probably won't happen, and if you push it, it might end the relationship. But, when you turn 21, alcohol helps.